HELP!!!...I need to determine when I got pregnant?

Question

I posted a question earlier but I don't seem to be getting the response I'm looking for so I will be more specific about my situation: I am trying to determine the exact date (or very close to it) that I got pregnant (not sure of who the dad is).

I had intercourse with guy #1 on Sun. Jul. 20th which was also the first day of my last period (it was normal) and he pulled out.

I had intercourse with guy #2 on Sun. Jul. 27th and a few times up until now and he does not pull out.

I had my first prenatal on Wed. Aug. 27th and the ultrasound determined that I was 5wks and 3days which coincides with guy #1 but I was told that they normally give you a date based on the first day of your last period not necessarily the day you conceive. Considering the fact that he pulled out and I got my period promptly the same day I have a hard time believing it is him.

I am so confused and I need someone to tell me based on the dates and information above (please read thoroughly) WHO IS MOST LIKELY THE DAD...GUY #1 OR GUY#2?

PLEASE HELP!!!

Answer 1

You're NOT ACTUALLY pregnant the first 2 weeks. They use the last day of your first period to determine, but you normally don't ovulate until about 2 weeks later (guy 2 time). There is very very very little itty bitty almost no chance it's guy 1! You should quit sleeping around though!!! Do you see what mess you've gotten yourself into!?!?

example, if the doctor says you're 5 weeks pregnant, the age of the fetus (baby) is only 3 weeks! Any pregnancy book will explain this to you.

Answer 2

I WOULD SAY GUY NUMBER 2 IS THE DAD BUT IN ALL HONESTY U NEED TO BE HONEST TO YOURSELF AND TO YOUR PARTNERS DON'T MAKE SOMEONE BELIEVE THEY ARE THE FATHER BECAUSE PEOPLE TELL U THEY ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE THE FATHER BESIDES WHAT IF IT TURNED OUT TO BE OTHERWISE?? YOU WOULD SEE YOURSELF IN A BIGGER MESS YEA I'M SURE ITS EASIER SAID THAN DONE BUT BELIEVE ME IT WILL ONLY BE WORSE IN THE END ANY-WHO BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!

Answer 3

okay sperm live inside of you for about a week so it most likely is guy #2 because around the time you had s*x with him and normal ovulation time it adds up. you just got pregnant fast by him. congrats on the baby though. yes they go by your last period date so when you get an ultrasound done this will be a more accurate date.

Answer 4

So if I read correctly, you started your period on the 20th?

If that is right than conception would have been on a normal 28 day cycle around Aug. 3rd.

Personally going off of your dates though, I would aim for guy number 2.

If you'd like to go off of your exact menstrual cycle length go to http://pregnancyandbaby.com/pregnancy/ba... and enter the appropriate information.

Answer 5

guy number two is the father, you can't get pregnant unless you ovulate and most women don't ovulate the same day they get there period so I would say guy #2 is it!

Answer 6

If your doctor is saying its guy one, i would believe it is, my husband and i got pregnant with # 2 by the "pull out" method ... i was also on the pill, so the pull out method isn't always effective. If all else fails there's maury for you.

The girl above me is wrong, yes you can in some cases

Answer 7

I would say guy number 2..