HELP!!! I need to min back my man?

Question

My partner and i have just had a baby and during my pregnancy i pretty much went insane. I can see it has had a huge effect on our relationship but dont know what to do about it. I love him so much but as we only knew each other a little while befor falling pregnant he really only knows me as this pregnant bitchy woman. Not to mention a complete bore that has to go home from parties early and could not go out and drink and hav fun with him. I'm not saying he is that shallow that straight after birth he expects me to be this complete party freak. Far from that i just want to be able to show him who i really am and that im not a complete bore

Answer 1

so you just explained to us what he might want... but you're asking us what to do??  Really?

Answer 2

really, I would move on. if you're not a person who parties and all that don't act like you are. Love should be between people who are allowed to be themselves and don't have to put on a mask in front of each other. This sort of living can be exhausting.

Considering that you have a child now, you SHOULD be focusing on your child. Not winning some man back who obviously ISN'T a man to leave the mother of his child because she didn't party and her hormones during her pregnancy made her moody. A man who loves you should be able to deal with your flaws especially when it's not your own fault.

It's time you lived your life and looked after your child,not running after some coward. I don't mean to offend you I just don't like seeing people with children forget about the child.

Answer 3

Be a chameleon wear different types of clothes. Change in and out of clothes to gray pink yellow, red, use your imagination.

Or maybe you could say. Hey I'm multicolored noone is going to change that. Oi I like french fries and I'm not ashamed.

Hey I want to eat muffins with butter all over them.

Yes I love you don't boa constrict me.

Be silent and do some washing for him dressed in a multicolored suit LOL

Answer 4

I would say talk to him, tell him the truth, why you've been so cranky or why you THINK you've been so cranky. And once in a while, go out and have fun, like going to a restaurant. If you're not that type of person, then just be yourself. If he doesn't like you the way you are, then your relationship with him is terrible and if he can't accept you for who you are, then leave him because when you decide to spend the rest of your life with someone, you shouldn't have to hide who you are inside, you should be able to show who you are inside without having to hide any part of you from him. And he also needs to understand that pregnant women can get moody, and that when you choose to spend your life with someone and have children, you need to deal with the attitude. Hope it helped

Answer 5

Maybe you should talk it out with him and let him know how you feel!! Just my opinion!!