HELP! I really want a "sister"?

Question

I was at school today, and I realized that I really want a girl who's 13 or 14 that I can talk to about pretty much anything. I'm saying, "sister" because there are girls at my school who love each other sooo much that they call each other sisters. I want someone like that. I really want a girl best friend. I'm NOT a tomboy, I just have ALOT of guy friends. I always get along better with a guys because they're kinda easier to talk to about things, but I don't have anybody to talk to about "boy troubles" and "girl problems." I have friends who are girls, but their not my BEST friends. Actually theyre not even friends really...more like aquaintences? And it's hard to like make friends with the other girls because sometimes girls only talk to me because I hang out with their crushes and when the crush says that he doesn't like her, then she gets mad at ME!! And they probably think I'm a sl-t too because of all the guys who are my friends. It's not fair. =(

What can I do to make other girls like me and maybe even have a new best friend?

Answer 1

I'm in the same situation as you! A lot of the girls @ my school aren't easy to talk to or they're just really immature. I don't have any guy friends though(although i agree they're a lot more fun to hang around w/ and talk to) because all guys in middle school are dushbags lol. But here's some info about me if you want me to be your "online sister" If your interested, just post so and I'll send you my email address so we can chat

Me:

girly but really athletic

I'm blonde too!

love music and movies

run cross country

14

astrology sign: cancer

so haha yeah those are just some things about me, ttyl hopefully:d

Answer 2

i'll be your sister

Answer 3

I'll be your sister!!!!

I'm 16 though :(

you can add me on myspace if you want though! Or just mssge me on yahoo!! :]

no, I don't think your a s**t bcuz you hang around a lot of guys. You just like hanging with guys!  

Answer 4

i know i have the same problem you can be my friend and talk to me about anything you can e-mail me anytime @ [e-mail]

Answer 5

Ugh, I feel ya.

All of my best friends are guys, too.

I mean, I have like on best friend that's a girl, but she goes to a different school now, it's hard to keep in touch.

Anyway, just chat it up with other girls. That's what I've been doing this year.

Eventually, you'll become tight with some girls.

Hope that helps :)

I'll be hoping for luck for me, as well.

Answer 6

I have the same problem.I am 14 years old,i have one little sister shes 6 months,i cant talk to anyone,about me problems,becouse no one is in my age.Is really hard to find tru friends,but keep trying one day u will get one.I personally ask u if u want to me my friend,u can talk to me about anything,i will not juge u.

good luck....

Answer 7

Be my sister! I want a "sister" too!  

Answer 8

for the "sister" part you can sign up to be a little sister as big brother-big sister where someone around the age of 18-mid 20s will hang out with you and chat with you once a week or so  

Answer 9

Well im 15 but i would talk to u about things Email me if you want...

:]

Answer 10

im sorry that i cant be your sister but if you looking for a brother im right here lol  

Answer 11

hey!

we can be new sisters!! juss email me or IM me. im always on lol!! cant wait!!

Answer 12

i'll be ur sister :D my email is in my info. but u should know ur lucky. aalllllll my friends r girls and it gets really frustrating! i wish i had more guy friends :(

Answer 13

just start talking to some girls at your school that seem to have the same interests as you. i love my guy friends, i have many more guy friends that what i do girls that are friends. i have two girl best friends but i only call one of them my "sister", we don't even go to the same school but we are supper close. i also have an older "brother" he is always watching out for me and i can always count on him. we don't go to the same school and i have only hung out with him three times, but i text message him every day. i don't really have much of a family, so i treat my "sister" and my "brother" as if they really were family. i hope you find someone to be your "sister"

Answer 14

Im kind of like you.

I have a lot of guy friends because they are easier to talk to and they have very little drama. but I also took extra time making friends that are girls, right now I have two best girl friends and we call each other "sisters." but my very best friend is a guy and theres nothing wrong with that. I know that it feels like theres pressure to have a bff like all the other girls but trust me there are way more important things.

Also im a sophmore in highschool.

Answer 15

what about me? :(

Answer 16

Ohh, sweetie. Ue can find one too :]

Juz be kind to others && be outqoinq,

im sure ue can find one .

I would love to be uer sister in Yahoo too  :]

Answer 17

Find some other girls who have the same interests,likes and dislikes that you have.

Answer 18

i totally understand what you mean. try getting involved in extra-carricular activities, so that way you can get to meet new girls. also taking "advanced" or multiple grades classes will put older girls in your life.

ill email you and go from there;)