HELP.IS THIS GUY SERIOUS... should i BELIEVE HIM OR MOVE ON.?

Question

we were just friends. I didnt want to date him at first because i heard he was a player. then he wanted to go out .we did and it was nice.we continued to talk on the phone and go out. and then we really got closer.but i still didnt want to because i didnt like that he was still talking to his ex everyday. i used to get really mad at him and not talk to him for wks then we would be cool again. we never had s*x and he never asked me or forced me to have s*x with him. he told me he wanted to be with me forever and have his kids. he told me he was falling in love with me. he said he would do watever to have me.i didnt believe him. b4 i left the state for my new job, we really talked and kissed for hrs when he told me he was ready to be with me. now im gone and we text but he sends me stuff like "he really thought i was the one" "he was head over heels:" and he wouldve left everything behind for me. i talked to him recently and he says now that we are talking again he wants to make future plans and make sure hes not going to lose me again. ..i talked to him again last nite and now he says he will move to the state i live in..IS HE SERIOUS. SHOULD I BELIEVE HIM. I REALLY WANT TO. WHAT should i do

Answer 1

Yeah, tell him move there, he gets his OWN place and no s*x from you until he marries you.THAT will prove what he is REALLY after.

Tell him to come visit when he gets a week vacation, get a motel and go look for a job.Then he can move there.Next tell him you'll date a year and no s*x and see what happens.If you  say"well come on and stay with me 'til you find a job ,he WILL end up in bed with you.If he is going to use you for s*x, he won't stay around long after that.Chances are everything he has told you, he has told ALL of his ex's.

Answer 2

if he's put the past[[his ex]] behind him hes serious, but dont put ur whole heart into the relationship until u feel in ur heart hes serious we cant tell u if es serious or not cuz we dont know how U feel in the inside

=^^= hope it helps

Answer 3

theres bothing to suggest he has cheated or thought about trying it on with other girls so the honest truth is you should go straight back to him because he is in love and that is rare and you should have him blah blah blah hes the one trust me i swear on my left nut he is in love

Answer 4

tell the dude to take a hike and move on with your life