HELP!!!! If she tells me she wants to withdraw from the world and become a hermit, and says weird things...?

Question

Does that mean she's pulling away from me?

She recently wrote stupid things on her blog like "we say i love you so much that we sometimes forget what they really mean"

I can't stand it, she's the one who bloody initiated the r/s and now she gives all these signs? Am I being paranoid/over-senitive or what?

I told her last night that she can be honest about everything, and tell me when she feels like the r/s isn't right anymore, but she told me told me that she doesn't feel that way so we're cool. But that's only on the surface, i feel.

Firstly, she's soooooo caught up in her past and her ex-boyfriend, first love she says (you can believe her, really) I kinda want out from this mess. I love her, but I can't love someone who is just so.. Distant nowadays.

Tell me what to do!!!! I'm at loss :(

Answer 1

yes i feel like im reading abt myself lol.

shes going through a hard time with sumthing idk....but shes obviously depressed and trying to cut off contact with everyone....

that was me....i cut contact with my friends and stuff because of the stuff i was going through at home and personal issues within myself that i was dealing with....

i think u should get her help....she sounds like shes going through a rough time.

i can relate.....

:(

Answer 2

you should talk it out with her, she doesnt seem like shes knows what she wants

Answer 3

Im not sure whats really going on but it seems like she doesnt think u love her. Prolly just a stage i wouldnt worry so much.