HELP!!!...Is it wrong for a black women not to be attracted to black men.?

Question

My friend does not date black anymore. She said it was because "SOME JUST DON'T HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR HER AT ALL." So now she has a boyfriend of 6 months who is German. He's very very sweet and he respects her so much and I really like who she is dating, but some other black people call her "a DISGRACE TO BLACK PEOPLE" or she's "F**ked up!" But when other people say that they don't date their race...nobody says anything.

I feel sad that she has to go through this and I need advice on how I can help her out!!!

Answer 1

Ive got a similar problem. People that can't accept other races are jealous that they haven't found the right person. Or they are just so ignorant that being happy for someone else is impossible and clouds everything that they say and do.

Answer 2

OMG are you serious? I am white and my wife is black and we have never gotten any kind of c**p for it. Even my racist parents were so shocked by the fact that I was dating a girl they completely overlooked the whole not white thing. A disgrace to black people? No way. If your friend is happy dating someone who is not her own race more power to her. There is an expression "love is blind".  

Answer 3

Well, I hope your friend isn't insecure to where she worrys about what other think.  I experienced the same thing myself.  Some people refuse to speak to me now but I don't care, that is their problem.  It's 2008 and time for people to realize that we are all the same and people have a right to date/marry whomever they choose!  

Answer 4

Those people who tell her she's a disgrace to black people are racist, it's no different than a white person being mad that one of their family members is dating a black person or anyone else who isn't white. Did you hear about that couple from Atlanta? An Indian guy was dating a black girl, and his father was mad about it, because in India, it's still very common for families there to choose who their daughters / sons marry and they don't like them dating out of their own race and apparently his father brought that ideology to America when he immigrated here, so the father killed the black girl and it was just because of her skin color.

Answer 5

No its not wrong and she is pretty smart.

Answer 6

You friend is not wrong at all

Answer 7

its not wrong at all. infact iv never crushed on a guy hu was teh same race as me. i lyke 2 guys in my lyfe an they were both white. well f*ck those people who said that! u gotta remmeber that people who are of diccerent races just have ancestors who are from different parts of teh earth. tht shudnt affect hu we lyke an dun lyke. its not lyke it affects ur personality. maybe ur looks but tht duznt completely matter! watever happned to martin luther king jr????

Answer 8

no

Answer 9

no maybe she just finds white people more attractive. fair enough, she obviously has nothing against black people personally, and maybe bad experiences - "SOME JUST DON'T HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR HER AT ALL" - have made her feel that way.

Answer 10

It shouldn't be, it's all about personal preference, which every human being has.