HELP ME, SO CONFUSED, 14 YRS OLD?

Question

this guy i really really like and i have been talking and texting all summer long. now school has started. we have 1 class together. the first day of school we wer txting after school and he asked me why i didnt hug him at school and then i did the next day and we talkd a little at school. then the rest of the week he was getting mad at me and telling me i made promises to him, about things i dont even remember, and making me feel really really bad, in a playful sort of way, but still making me feel bad, then on thurs, we were in our class together and everyone is working and talking about the homecoming dance and ppl are talking to him and are like "hey you should ask (girls name)" and i was sooo upset , becasue he liked me earlier in the summer, and he said"okay yall ill ask her after school" (i dont know if he ever asked her) then on thurs after school we were taling and he asked me who was taking me to the dance and i said that i didnt know yet , and he was like uhhhh ok(this was over a text) then this weekend i went on vacation and while i was there me and my friend were really hyper , lol, and we were calling random people on my phone and leaving wierd voicemails, and we left him one, ibut i cant remember what he said. But he hasnt responded to any of my texts all weekend. If we dont text today, how do i deal with it tomorrow, and please any advice on the situation, please?

i know its long, but please only real answers , im very confused on the situation, and i actually am pretty mature...

and at the beginning of the summer he told me he liked the girl, but , later on in the summer he told one of my friends that he liked me, but when she asked him he said"i used to like her"

just so yall know, hes a really big charmer , like , the kinda guy that calls every girl baby, and gives them compliments , and to make matters worse i am sooooo attracted to him

Answer 1

Your only 14 and have many years of dating when you get older..Right now, school is the most important thing in your life, not a boyfriend. Social pressure is tough during the teen years,but focus on the important things and your life will be so much better. Guys/Girls come and go at your age.  Boys have no clue what they want at 14 and their focus should be school too.  Good luck

Answer 2

will based on wat you wrote it looks like you realy like him but is scared to share your emotions so i think you should tell him that you like him ..but you should also think about that if he dosent feel the same way about you can ruin our freindship with him...good luck

Answer 3

Well, it sounds like you really really like this guy, but it would also seam that all of these texts hasn't really helped you or this guy.  What I mean is, as you are texting i'm presuming that it's easier for you guys to talk this way.  By texting though eventually it has caused a lot of problems.  it has caused so many problems that when you come face to face, both of you seam unable to speak even a whole sentence.

I think it would be a good idea for you to sit down and literally write down everything that is confusing you about him.  Once you're sure you written everything down you then need to sit down with him iin frontof you and talk.  I get the impression you're ssquirmingabout talking to him face to face but this is the only way you can not only voice to eeach otherbut you would be able to see other things that have been missing from your text conversations, actual words, expressions feelings, tone of voice.  

For the air to be cleared and for you to have any kind of relationship with this guy then I feel this is the way forward.  

Answer 4

tell him how you feel about him.

Answer 5

High school drama is soo fun.

Answer 6

This relationship isn't going to last anyway.

Answer 7

call him he can't ignore that ask him if hes mad ask if he is going to the dance and who with find things out

Answer 8

He's not interested. Don't be a pain in the behind. Leave him alone. You're much too young to get involved anyway.  

Answer 9

stop worrying about this. focus on something worth worrying about like aids or world hunger.