HELP ME ! MY MOM SAW MY TAMPON AND THINKS IM DUSGUSTING!?

Question

i went swimming while i had my period so i obveously had a tampon, i put shorts on over just incase though. so i had the tampon thing in my pocket cuz there was no garbage can. my mom saw it and shes really pissed. shes SCREAMIN, "SO NOW YOUR PISSED I FOUND A TAMPON, WHAT NOW ?!?! IM GONNA FIND YOU HAVING s*x ?!?!?!??!?!?!?!" i dont know what to do anymore! the other day she slammed the door on me 2 times, so i said uh you hit me and she said OH REALLY ?! shes constantly putting me down and threatening me.I CANT DEAL WITH THIS ANYMORE! i cant call diface, or my dad, i cant call anyone. the only thing i do is listen to music or talk to my friends. PLEASE I NEED HELP !

Answer 1

I had problems with my mom throughout my teenage years, kinda sounds like what your going through. Especially seeing that the tampon in your pocket and comparing you to having s*x really has nothing to do with one another. I get why you had it in your pocket, I do, but yes that is kinda gross.... But aside from that, I'm really sorry. I know how it is to always be fighting with your mom and have no one to turn too. That's how I was, and I always counted on my friends.

Try writing a poem, several even. If your not good at writing poems then write the way you feel in short sentences. Poems can be written in anyway. Get your feelings out that way. You can post them on sights and let people comment them and you can find people that feel the same, and will thank you for writing it, which will help uplift you from your mom making you feel so horrible. That's what I did. My mom even found a few and got pissed, but you know, I don't know how old you are, I even tried to get emancipated from the time I was 15 to 17. But when I graduated high school and started college, I'm fixing to graduate college, life gets so much better. So just look forward to that. Hang in there!!

Also, let it all go in one ear and out the other. You sometimes just gotta ignore it, especially if you explain your side and she still doesn't understand it....

If you ever want to talk, you can email me.

Answer 2

Your mother's behaviour is so childish and immature, just ignore her taunts and rants, just say to yourself she is mentally ill and does not know what she is talking about....and go stay with your friends for a few days to chill out.

Answer 3

there is absolutly nothing wrong with using a tampon first of all. second of all is your mom one who is extremely old fashioned? if she is you need to explain to her that they are a very common deal and tell her not to assume your having s*x just because of them. state that you wanted to go swimming and there was nothing else you could do. parents like that just need to chill. and if none of that works, just keep hiding em and ignore her, take what she has to say, in one ear and out the other.

Answer 4

I agree with Annabelle!!!