HELP ME!! boy trouble!!

Question

me and this kid were going out for two months and i broke up with him in february twice. i gave him a second chance. but at the time i wish i never gave him a second chance. but its summer time and we talk like everyday but i havent seen him since the last day of school. i still like him tho...A LOT!!! i've tried to tell him how much he means to me. I broke up with him when i did, due to peer pressure from my friends and family. they dont kow how much he means to me. what should i do? the problem is that i think he still likes me, but not as much as he did. and he has a girlfriend now, but she lives in wisconsin and he lives in nh. i really dont know what to do!! please help!! he knows i still love him and he knows how mcuh i do too! but i really dont know what to do. i want to be with him but he has a gf. uugghh!!

Answer 1

its your fault sweetie...never let your friends pressure you.

Answer 2

You should save him the trouble of being with someone who does whatever their friends and family tells them to. Think for yourself, don't just go along with something because your friends tell you to. You obviously don't care about him like you claim, otherwise you wouldn't have hurt him just because of your friends.

Grow up, and let him live his life without your drama.

Answer 3

Move on. It sounds harsh when you feel like you do, but if he knows you like him and he's not doing anything about it, then he's either not interested or just more interested in his current girlfriend. Or he just doesn't trust you anymore.

I really think you shouldn't try to get him while he's with this girl. It's just such a nasty thing to do to someone, imagine if he was yours and some girl was trying to take him away.

Answer 4

What's stopping you? You like him, he likes you. Seems like the perfect ground to build a relationship on.

Tell him how you feel, the worst he can do is say no. That wouldn't be the end of the world.

Just tell him and take it from there.

EDIT: I just read that he has a gf. That changes things. You should try to remain friends with him then. You shouldn't break up a relationship. Remain friends, then if/when they split up, consider making a move again.