HELP!! My boyfriend of 2 years is sneaking around to fulfil his fetish needs!!!!?

Question

He cheated on me with an ex last summer and we just barely made it through that. Now while paying bills I found money missing and a disturbing email about "s**y Stripper shoes" for sale. Natually the day he told me he was working late is the day he set up to pick them up after work. I haven't seen these shoes and he came up with a convincing story about where the money went.

A little more info, our s*x life is terrible...I mean....TERRIBLE!!! I hate myself with he's done, he never cares about me or what I like/want. So I feel like if he takes no intrest in me, why should I indulge his fetishes????!! Is that wrong??? Ugh...I'm so sick of this and I just need some advice. So I even bother asking him? Or am I kicking a dead horse with this guy?

Answer 1

he's your boyfriend... break up while you can. it's ten times easier than a divorce. find someone else... easier said than done, i know. BUT... it's better to be single than be with a cheater, esp. one who sucks at s*x.  

Answer 2

why did you take him back in the first place? i dont understand why people give cheaters a second chance, because they will just do it AGAIN and AGAIN and AGAIN or however much you allow them to do. when you take a cheater back, youre setting yourself up to be more pain. people say that people deserve a second chance becuase people make mistakes. what about people who make mistakes on purpose? he knew it was wrong but that didnt stop him. stop taking this c**p and get out.

Answer 3

You are a moron!

Leave HIM!  Get Out!

Self Explanatory!!!!!

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Answer 4

If he makes you hate yourself you need to dump him!  He sounds like a big lose and you would be much better off without him.  You deserve a man who won't cheat on you and makes you a top priority.

Answer 5

If you're that unhappy, can't trust him, and feel dirty after having s*x with him, why do YOU stay?

If you stay with him, you'll be treated the same, and feeling the same.

If you leave, you'll feel good about yourself for dumping a loser.

So what do you have to lose?

Answer 6

DTMFA

code word which means, dump him.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.ph...

For source of code word, read a few columns here. Maybe you will be enlightened. Why should you hang around, do you like STD's? http://www.thestranger.com/savage

Answer 7

You should not.

Nope it is not wrong if you two are not happy with each other and he is cheating then let him go.

Life is too short not to have peace and happiness.