HELP! Should i end it?

Question

I have been a relationship for almost 3 yrs. when i first met this guy his mother was very ill, it seems like my guy always took care of her running her to the hosp and everything. through out our relationship he would spend 4-5 days a week shopping & caring for her even though she had live in help. when we did have time together she would call him on his cell phone and they would talk for awhile. and i would just sit there like, i must be with the biggest mamas boy of all time! we even became engaged for a short amt of time but the more i thought about things the more i started to feel like i was not number one in his life and i broke off the engagement. recently his mother has been in the hosp, she is in stable condition but he has been there everyday, my birthday has past and i have not seen him or spent any time with him. he constantly tells me how much he loves me and wishes i was by his side but i cant help to feel completely tired and turned off by this whole situation. i have been understanding and patient for so long. should i end it or keep trying to see if things will change, i mean his mom has always been sick and i feel bad, but this isnt the way i want a relationship to be. Any advice would be great!

Answer 1

it depends if u love him enough to put up with it x

Answer 2

Okay if mom is not terminally ill and she has live in help the you are dating a mama's boy. I think you should let him know how you feel and tell him to either give more time and energy to the relationship or its over because love will not wait forever. And as far as you waiting think about it...do you want to marry a mama's boy that will never be at home or there for his kids because he is too busy with his mother. I understand that she is sick but unless he is a doctor that can cure anything then he should realize that this relationship that he is in needs time too.  

Answer 3

You knew what you were getting into when it all started, and by you two still being together for three years, that shows that you want it to work out. Just be understanding, family always has to come first. Don`t hold it against him that he`s taking care of his mom. It`s actually a good thing. You can tell how a guy will treat you by how he treats his mom. Hold onto him.