HELP WHAT WOULD U DO?

Question

ok my really good friend Chad know my personal secret and he told me that he wasn't going to pressure me in telling him and I told him and he said he was sorry about what happen and I told him it was ok and for him not to tell anyone I trust him completely but the thing is that my dad's gf made me realize that if him and I ever got together and we broke up that he would talk bad about me like a dog cause he talks bad about his ex's to me on the phone but the question is that should I believe him when he said he wouldn't tell my personal secret cause hes the only friend that knows about it. And I know he wouldn't ever talk bad about me but half of me is saying yeah he will its a wonder he's not talking bad about u to his other friends so what would u do.

Answer 1

he'll never do that if he's just a friend. But unfortunately when your on, maybe there will be a time he will open it up to somebody just what he's doing to you.

Answer 2

I guess you ought to have some faith in your friend. You have already told him your secret n there's no undoing this thing. All you can do now is to trust him when he says he won't tell anyone. Whatever happens in future...i.e. whether he tells anybody or not, you cannot help it...so there's not point in thinking over this. In fact, thinking too much about it may hamper your friendship....which is wot the other girl wants. So trust him...n let all else go.

good luck.

Answer 3

if you date and break up chances are he will if he already talks about his ex girlfiends what makes you think he wont do it to you