HELP! What does it really mean? please help..i dnt wnt it 2 end :(

Question

rite my bf went on holiday and said as soon as he comes back he'll come to see me asap. he came home was gonna see me but his m8ts car broke down so I said oh it's ok u hang out with them so he said I'll come in 2 days in the morning got a txt saying: 'ur probs p***ed hun, have fun, ill come round some other time k, wensday. love u, have good time Txt back.'

So as usual i txt back saying noo i'm not please come i miss u so much.

no answer so i went to train station coz it normally means he's on his way [ this is what normally happens ] waited for two trains..he wasn't there

got really upset and wondered why..it's the second time now

in the evening he went on msn.. 1st time we had a convo for over 15 mins or something and he said he went out with his m8ts.. i was like oh good good hope u had fun and can you please tell me straight next time like say: cant come c u going out with m8ts like u've been telling me 2

[ i told him 2 get more involved with them coz he's left school and doesn't see them much so i say go see them and i don't want to take him away from them ]

then he was like 'oh i need my space'.. and he said 'dnt rly wana end, still love you, but, i notice how much i aint been with my friends, how much i dont get to be with em all, cause every saturday i have i spend with you, i always cancel for you, so this week, i decided not to, cause i love you all, but theyre not gona be around forever'

i was like :O i've been trying to make u go out with them more..

he keeps acting weird with me..sort of like he doesn't care anymore..like i'm not his gf.. what does it all mean? does he want to end? is it over?

i kno i mite sound possessive but people have been saying oh he's gonna end with u and the whole he needs his space is his way of telling me he doesn't want me in his life and stuff

pleases help.. i love him so so much and don't wanna lose him.. we're like engaged..ish

we both felt this way.. wanting to get married never losing each other.. but he doesn't seam that way any more..

please help..give opinions..w.e

are they right?

thank you

love you lots like jelly tots <3

Answer 1

give him space and see what happens.

if it ends there is nothing u can do, i know how u feel, but it sounds as tho u are both young and at that age people change.

i would just give it time and see what happens, go out with your friends as well!  

Answer 2

You sound FAR too needy.  A clinger in fact.  This is driving him away from you.  He&#039;s feeling claustrophobic.  Cool it.  If you are ALWAYS there, you are like wallpaper - unnoticed.  Join a club or do something separate for yourself alone on a regular basis so you are not always needing him by your side.  It&#039;ll make you far more interesting and he&#039;ll want to be around you.

Answer 3

Girl, get over him.  I know what&#039;s on your mind(yeah easy for me to say) but then you are just hurting yourself.  You are not being possessive because you always give way as you said for him to be with his m8ts.  You and him should sit down and talk about it seriously, tell him what you feel all about this and if he still insist about spending more time with his so called m8ts than with you just give it to him. (Meaning cool off if you still cant accept the fact that you are growing apart).

If he does love you he would come back but dont expect too much of the coming back part, just go on and get busy on other things like hanging out with your own freinds too or relatives or working.  I assure you, you would easily get over him specially when somebody find you and give you attention more than he could ever give.

Answer 4

I think you must be both young and both need to re think about your relationship and have fun.

If you don&#039;t want to break up with him try to increase your social activities without him. Arrange to go out with your pals and don&#039;t be so accessible. He will soon wonder what you are doing. It might change your views as well e.g. more fish in the sea etc.

Why can&#039;t you sometimes go out with him and his pals and some of your friends that way you r there together but can mix with other people as well.

Answer 5

well face it, a person could come up with a hundred different things that could be going on. he could be wanting to be on his own, he could be being manipulated by his friends, he could be going on his &quot;last hurrah&quot; before settling down with you.  i think the best thing you can do is probably also the toughest.  follow the old saying, &quot;if you love something set it free, if it loves you, it will come back, if it doesn&#039;t, it was never yours.&quot;  i don&#039;t mean break up with him,  i would just give him space, all the space.  don&#039;t get a hold of him for a while, let him get ahold of you, don&#039;t plan activities, let him plan them.  if his feelings are true, it may take a little time, he will get a hold of you.  don&#039;t act mad or upset, just be your normall self, and don&#039;t bring it up, unless he does. let him run the operation for awhile, then there&#039;s no way he can feel trapped, pushed, or whatever.  if his friends are manipulating him, usually the girl wins out with time.....good luck!

i&#039;m just a dumb american....what are jelly tots?  jelly beans?

Answer 6

Sounds like you both giving each other mixed messages....... or someone is using your phone to txt him cancellation messages...... or he is losing interest in you because he thinks you want him to.

Best solution is get together and have a chat about things and tell him how you feel.

Good luck.

Answer 7

maybe on holiday something happened

when you next see him sit down and talk to him about how you feel

ask him if he feels the same way

and if this relation ships gonna work

i hope this helps you x