HELP! What should I do?!?

Question

I just turned 18 on saturday and had a pretty big party...and knowing me I drank a little too much and was sick.

My aunts bf was helping me for most of the night and then he tried to kiss me twice when no one was around...I dont him I didnt want that and ran away to my friend and told her about it and then passed out.

Anyway this isnt the first time hes done this...

Earlier this year at my cousins birthday I had tequila shots and got pretty smashed and passed out on the bed only to wake up to him kissing me and taking my clothes off and I freaked out n said I needed to go to the toilet and grabbed my clothes and ran to my aunts room crying and told her what happened. Anyway apologies were made and I accepted thinking it was just because he was too drunk and didnt realise.

Now hes tried it again I dont know if I should tell my aunty again because it almost destroyed her relationship...and also she is really sick because she just had an operation...

What should I do? Im really confused and lost...

Should I wait till my aunt is better to tell her or what?

Answer 1

First of all... getting smashed all the time is leaving you wide open to  predations of grabby, glommy old dudes. If you get too messed up to deal with stuff, you really have no business getting drunk. Quit that! How long do you think it will be before your hard-partying ways leads you to get pregnant or some STDs? You have to maintain control over yourself.

Yes, you should probably talk to your aunt about her groady masher boyfriend. Yes, you should probably let her get to feeling better first.

Next time tell your aunt that he cannot be at any party you are at (or vice-versa) because he is an opportunistic sexual predator.He knows exactly what he is doing and when. He lies in wait for you to get messed up and he is trying to have s*x with you.

You need to stay away from him at any rate. If you see him at any party, you need to get out of there.

Answer 2

She needs to be told soon.  It should've destroyed her relationship with him.  He's a pig and she needs to find someone to love her and treat her with respect.  Not someone who is going to look for chances to take advantage of her niece!!  Depending on how ill she is, you should wait until you've made sure she's ok.  

Answer 3

Tell your parents and tell your aunt that he keeps trying to kiss you. Stay away from your aunt and her BF from now on. He may rape you one day.