HELP!!! babymama issues!!!?

Question

okay so my ex-girlfriend is 5 months pregnant with my child...now in the past we have always had a problem with her talking to this guy she was with before me, so I nipped her talking to other guys friends or not on the phone. So after we found out she was pregnant of i was happy and everything, we moved in together and began "our" life. However she began to complain alot after coming home from work, school, and so on. So later on one night her phone wakes me up about 12am and I look and there a number I havn't seen before and come to find out it's a guy from school, now it this point out is out and lets not foget the fact it's 12am...so long story short I'm not with her however love her alot and want to be with my child and her and work on things for the 100th time with her (hoping it will change because of the baby) but now she wants to play childish games and send mixed signals!!!! WHAT DO I DO????

Answer 1

I wish I knew. But from my current experience, it's not gonna work. You are now waiting for the unknown end, 'cause it's coming. You can decide when, now or later. I have several "reasons" that I'm still with my sons father: I love him, he's a great dad, he treats me great...but I'm not in love with him, and I'm reminded of that void more often than I'd like to admit. Honestly, I think he feels it to, but it's working now, so why mess it up...right? Wrong! Have the strength to do what I can't, move on without being bitter or angry, be a great parent to your child and leave yourself available for the one who'll love you the way you deserve. Good luck and wishes for a happy and healthy baby!

Answer 2

be a father to the child.

break it down to the girl that yu dont want to paly games. if she dont listen. leave her. but not the bby ;)

Answer 3

First Be a father to the child.  Go to the ultrasound and birth.  Second don't force yourself to be with your baby mama.  If she doesn't want you then it will never work!!  Just focus on the child and if yall have a relationship let it happen.  She's playing games with you cause she knows she can.  If you stop playing them with her she will stop.  Just call her and ask about the pregnancy and then hang up.  My first marriage ended because we argued too much and he wouldn't work on the problems.  We had a son, but I knew I didn't want him growing up around that, because I did and hated it.  Do what is best for the child.  If you want to have the child around you 24/7 seek custody.