HELP from rebels! lol But help with sneaking out for the 1st time

Question

Hi,

okay so i have alot of friends in a town about 30mins away from mine so I'm planning to meet them this week and get there @ like 3:oopm leave about 6:ooam. My friend mike is pickin me up and can take me back just to go and hangout and party with them and i really want to go!!!! Now my mom would spaz out if even asked to leave the block for a whole day and hates me hanging out with boys for , I mean I'm 14 a straight A student and i wish she trusted me but she doesn't. All my friends think she is like the strictest =/ I have always listened to my mom never disobeyed her ever but my life has become soo boring & i feel its time to just LIVE.

soo i need help on how to get away with this.

-i thought about just saying im going to a sleep over or something (if anyone else has a better excuse please share or how to get away with the whole sleepover lie i would be very appreciative=]

but ive never lied to my mom so i need help with that

and also any one who can relate or give advice is much needed!!!

Answer 1

Okk..I've done this many times..Say your staying at your friends house which is what your doing. but be sure that your mom isn't gonna want to call their parents to make sure your staying there.Or do you have any friends that have really cool parents that would cover for you. Maybe even take the friend your staying with so just in case your mom does think your lieing she'll be with you to help you think of something.

Just have fun tho. Don't worry all night that your mom is gonna find out. Might as well have one fun night in case you get grounded for awhile. =]

Answer 2

haha just sleep over at a freinds house with other girls so the parents dont notice. make sure  its like the freind with the coolest parents' house. dont talk too much to your mom b.c then youll probly end up saying soemthing suspicious. have fun! but please make sure you can trust this kid and the ones ur gonna be with, its good to let loose once in awhile, you seem like a good kid haha.

Answer 3

wht kind of partying is a 14yr old gonna do  from 3pm  to 6 am?

Does your Mom know Mike ?

How OLD is Mike ?IS he driving ?

does she like Mike ?'Does she trust Mike ?

If you get BUSTED ...then she will HATE MIKE and you will be a liar.

when Mom askes whre you have been , what will be your lie ?

Please dont do this with a lie....you will damage your relationship with Mom.

A 14 yr old has no business being out for 15hrs without parental/adult supervision. I wouldnt do this if I were you

Tell your mom your Friends are having a party  ask her to drop you off and pick you up - then be ready when she gets there  even if it is early .. trust is built on truth not lies.

If you want your Mom to trust you  then you will have to Trust her judgement..she only wants you to have a good life and be safe.