HELP! im worried about my moms memory

Question

ever scince about 2 years ago my mom has been forgetting little things. i always get introuble for this. i am 13 and she is 37. im scared that this could get worse and i want to know how to prevent it from getting that way. an example is yesturday we went to the movies and it was 7. i asked for choclate and she said no bc she never lets me eat choclate beffore bed. she sais it has "caffene" i dont go to bed till 10 and she dosent remember that i hav choclate all the time beffore i go to bed. she sais i never do. another example was a year ago. i got paied 10$ a week for alowance and i missed 3 weeks of pay. she only paid me for 2 and stated that i was lying and i forgot. my stepdad says he remembers but he just tells me to stop arguing with him or ill get in trouble. today my little sister who is 9 was gong to get her nails done. my mom promased her a maniqure and a pedi. i heard this but they got in an argument bc my mom 4got and said she just said one mani or pedi. my sister is now crying bc my mom forgot what she said. i cant go either bc she punished me 4 the choclate. PLEASE HELP ME!!! I DONT NO WHAT TO DO. our bond is growing weeker just because she claims im always lying to get my way. no she does not have a job, and it is defanaly not money problems,(not to brag or anything)

Answer 1

Alcohol maybe?  That doesn't really sound that bad considering the possiblities of potential memory loss.  

Answer 2

When it got this bad with someone I knew, I wanted to carry around a recorder, and record her.  (LOL)  

But as someone else said, mothers are special, and we should love them, no matter what.  If you are being called a liar out of this, I will pray for you.  If you are telling the truth, I will pray for you and her.  

I'm sure you do not know if this is a physical or emotional problem taking place that is the cause of your mother's memory being affected.  And unless she wants anything done about it, or a peer friend (her age) wants to tell her about it, then all I can do, is pray for you.

I pray you both get the proper help in this matter, and that your mother's memory returns intact.  In Jesus' name I pray.  Amen!

† Comforting Prayer Warrior †

Answer 3

Moms are wonderful people!  And it is good that you still have one.  The problem is coming from your end.  If she tells you 'no,' I'm sure she meant 'no.'  The reasons don't matter.  Money is the problem.  Everything that you want, movies, chocolate, allowance, manicure, pedicure, etc. costs money.  What she does with her money is her decision.  She may not have had $30 extra dollars to pay you on your allowance, only $20.  She did not have the money for 2 manicures and pedicures, just 1.  What to do?

Be your mother's daughter.  And help her!