HELP me pleeeease XD?

Question

ok, it's not anything serious, just a vain teenager

i need to become cool in 24 hours, that includes how i act and how i look

quick description of me: about 4" 8 (giv or take an inch) i look normal weight but i'm actually over (9 stone x.x) natural tan, curly hair to the top of my shoulders (slight frizz) dark hair and eyes, and glasses (wow i sound pretty bad XD) i currently hav a fake personality which is an extremely weird hyper person, because rite now i don't hav a personality (long story)

about 620/700 students in my school are chavs, so i don't fit in

i can NOT be a chav, instead i want to be the girl that people hav respect for and like being around

give me tips please n_n

and mark this as interesting (even tho its not) cus i need loads of answers, school starts tomoro....

thank you in advance!

Answer 1

OK,

First of all,

The way you look is EVERYTHING.

Im sorry to say this, but people ARE alot nicer to good-looking kids :]

Try to make the best of your appearnce. And try to avoid wearing cheap unnecssary items, like cheap braclets, hair clips, etc. Have a natual feel to your hair by putting it up in one of those cute loose buns with your fringe out and stuff, with bobby pins :] You could wear your hair out, but after a long day at school it can start to get messy or frizzy, So putting up tends to work best.  For make-up,  (only IF you want to wear make-up) basically wear a good foundation, with a light brush over with a bronzer/blush or something along the lines of that, on your cheeks, nose and forehead (where the sun naturally hits your skin) DONT where lipgloss/lipstick. It can look awfully tacky :l  Use a lip moisturiser or chapstick so your lips are dry tho ;)

Umm,

Eyes,   DONT wear eyeshadow. This can look a bit tacky too :l

Just keep your eyes plain with maybe a little bit of mascara to make them stand out.

Umm,

Also, Try to pick clothes and accessories that go really well with each other. You could look on sites for idea's if you want.

And try not to load up on the accessories either. Like, dont rock up to school with a arm full of bangles up to your elbow, five different necklaces and a pair of hoops, cause that ISNT a real good look :l

OKOK,

Enough about looks,

PERSONALITY..

Try to be yourself and dont be scared to talk to people. The two most important things you need to remember.

If you think your a little bit on the quiet side when it comes to conversations, try to think of some funny or interesting things to say or talk about. This may sound a little bit weird, but planning future conversations help ALOT.

Be loud and talkative. But not TOO much. No one likes someone who is always in their face.

Compliments are nice too :]

But dont overload on compliments, they might just think your desperate for friends.

Umm,

When your one on one with someone, or just in a really small group, cut down on the loudness. Talk about what they're planning for the weekend and stuff.

LAUGHTER is good too.   Hehe.

Its good to let people know your having fun!

Definately DO NOT be quiet.   We have this kid in our class.. she is new.. but she only ever talks when people asks her questions.. Its a little bit weird.

OH, and dont talk really quietly. It gets a little bit annoying to people when they have to ask what you are saying all the time.

Umm,

So Yeah,   Look Good. Act Good. Feel Good.

If you look like a pretti cool person, people are going to want to talk to you, This is your chance to make a good first impression, When you start getting along, Act as though there your bestie and you've known them for years, you'd be suprised how many people find it easier to talk to you when you do this, (Dont wait for them to say 'COME SIT NEXT TO ME' or 'BE MY PARTNER', YOU be the one to say 'Sit next to me, and nudge them, and smile and laugh), Once you start to feel like part of the group you feel great.

Lol, it works :]

SO YEAH,

Have fun at skool :]

Answer 2

Just let other know that your trustworthy.They''ll soon have respect towards you :).Thats how i roll ;]

Answer 3

You're never going to be accepted or respected if you're being fake.

You just need to be your self and be confident and happy, that's the kind of person everyone wants to be around. A positive happy confident person. And one whose being true to their self.

Answer 4

confidance is key.

obvously be yourself as long as you have confidance you should be good

talk to people that you wqant to be like and make friends with them. join a clup or sport to make new verieties if friends

Answer 5

BE YOURSELF

you need to be confident but to be confident you need to start believing in yourself you have to accept yourself for who you are also no one wants to be friends with a fake you have to be yourself, you have to be you because everyone is different and it is good to be different you just can't go around acting like someone else just to be popular because in the long run you will regret it, also don't dumb yourself down to get attention because people love you for you so just stay your clever self only chavs dumb themselves down because they don't want to go anywhere in life, they just want to go on the dole, take drugs etc, also talk to people in your class you wouldn't normally talk to that way you can make more friends just only talk to the lovely personality people because they are being themselves plus school is an enjoyable time in your life where you make a ton of friends and some of them will stay friends with you throughout your life.

GOOD LUCK

xoxo

Answer 6

Don't spend your school life being someone your not cos that'll mess you right up & people are gonna think your fake etc.. and it'll all go downhill from there!!

You don't have a personality? hmm.. o_O

Well think about your interests/hobbies/likes & dislikes and you'll probably develop a personality like that.

& maybe try doing something different with your hair, straighten it..whatever it's up to you =)

Hope that helps XDDDD

Answer 7

I think you should appear confident, even if your not!! Also don't try too hard. Give people the impression that you couldn't give a d**n whether they like you or not but be nice to every one. :-)

Answer 8

dun try 2 act cool, cause ppl should really lyk u 4 who u r..

not ur FAKE personality..

so, just go 2 school and b who u r..

im sure there will be some ppl lyk u who share the same personality..

good luck!!

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Answer 9

don't try to change how you are to be "cool", you only come off as being fake and insecure

if you don't like how you look, get a haircut, get contact lenses, buy new clothing

life is way too short to be someone else... you're only here for so long, find who you are and love who you've become... if you don't love yourself, no one else will.

Answer 10

u remind me of my friend!

except she actually is hyper!

haha, shes rely popular at our skool too!

neways, just act like yourself.

if you want to be cooler apperiance wise, you shud get contacts, rely pretty clothes, like a white skirt or dark shorts with a pink or green or any bright colored tank, [wear a cami inside so u wont get dress-coded] and wear gold hoops with your hair in a bun! or your bangs clipped up! if u want to go personality wise, just be fun and nice and friendly, becuz noone hates a person thats like that! but seriouslyy, u dont hav to listen to me, like, u shud be deciding all of this! :)