HELP me with this please please please!!!!!?

Question

i know its boring to read long posts. but please be patient. please.. thanks

do you think in the five months that im not okay.. lets say im depressed.. do y think i would still be able to make it when i realized that all the things im doing is wrong? actually in the past 5 months i dont do anything. i mean im always at home. i kept on ignoring my friends. but theres a reason for all those. im doing these because i want to answer and understand something. so i chose to be alone for awhile. actually ts not awhile because it lasted for 5 months. however, theres no answer. what i did actually was to rely on doctors because i tot that i know there someone there who will understand me. but ive on to alot! woh. and then right at this moment im thinking that its enough. i mean ive got to do something. ive been in the dark! really! but its enough... now do you think that i will still make it despite the last 5 months? HELP ME... i need a really really good opinion.. im actually asking beucase i wanna know others opinion too..

Answer 1

Yes, you can make it.  Sometimes everything we do is wrong and it feels awful, but that really is life.  If you are not doing anything you will feel worse, so suggest you do something simple like go for a walk.  And call a friend and go see them even for a little while.  And find someone to talk to - someone who will listen.  Doctors can help, and so can counselors, or ministers/priests, or even strangers.  Talking out how you will feel will help.

Yes, you can.

One last thing. Sometimes there are no answers, and we just have to keep going.

Answer 2

You might want to rewrite this so people can understand what exactly it is your asking. As for how you feel. It will pass. Nothing stays terrible forever. Although it might seem like it it doesn't

Best of luck

Answer 3

When we don't find the answers we're looking for we have the tendency to look harder, but if we look too hard we might make connections where there aren't any. So take a break for now. Go and spend some time with your friends. You'll find the answers you're looking for and when you do they'll be clear and not so confusing.

And yes, you'll make it. Just remember to ask for help when you're not sure of yourself.

Answer 4

My opinion agrees with the opinion of a previous poster.You need to read the senseless question,pardon my expression,you have written and rewrite it in a manner that we understand and post it again.

If you want us to help you you will have to help us to help you by rewriting what you have written.

Answer 5

you need to re-write this...very unclear on what you require an opinion on....

Answer 6

Are you trying to understand yourself?  It is hard to understand ourselves, it takes a lot of work, sometimes years, some people really never fully understand themselves.  If you want to know how other people perceive you, you can ask them.  But be prepared for some possible negative feedback. If you get negative feedback try not to go on the defensive and get mad or sad--rather try to really examine the feedback and see if it is actually true. If it is, then you know what you need to work on improving.  Sure, I think you will make it just fine, we are all put on this earth for a reason.  But you need to get out of the house, get some exercise and sunlight--some people get more depressed if they don't get sunlight-it's called seasonal affective disorder. Do some socializing with friends and family. Reach out to others to help them, sometimes by helping others we actually are helped more than them--it's a strange but true thing. Good luck, and get up and get out, enjoy life--there are people who are dying and have not choice, because of a terminal illness.  You need to live while you are given the gift of living, not sit in the house anymore.  That is over and it didn't help you, so now you have to try other things, as I have suggested.  I would also suggest you try a different doctor if the one or ones you saw didn't help. Good luck!

Answer 7

hey i'm listening...so what you did was an experiment ? what were you trying to find out? what answer did you hope for?