HELP! parents are really strict... 10POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER?

Question

okay so my parents are really strict

usually when i ask them to take

me somewhere i want to go..

they usually say yes. like a movie

or mabye my friends house

but this time its a football game (stadium is preety huge)

i promised all my friends id be there.. (BIG MISTAKE)

but now that im asking my mom

she says no, because we got into a fight

earlier this morning.

and my dad says "ill go with you!"

if for me and my friends. i dont want my parents to be there!

SO ANYWAYS...

10 points for whoever can

give me the best answer,

i want you to come up with tips, or ideas

that can make them change their minds.

and write me what you think i should tell my parents

to make them change there minds.

i have a cellphone so mmabye telling them that i will call them

will help. i really dont know what to do..

THANKS IN ADVANCE(:

Answer 1

your dad seems to be softer, try and talk him round, then he can talk to your mum, i wouldnt mention it to her again until she asks you about it, or you are on good terms!

dad is the way forward!

Answer 2

maybe have your dad can go with you but he can wait in the car or hangout somewhere away from you. Tell him that he can call you if he wants to check up on you.

Answer 3

Do everything they tell you for a while and show them that you can be trusted without your parents being around, show how grown you are or at least act it. Just for while then they'll start letting go out on your own. And let them meet some of your friends.Let your parents see what kinds of friends you are with. Remember parents are always worry, try to show them that they dont have to be. And never fight with parents it just make things much worst.

Answer 4

1st tell them a mature adult will be some where in the stadium (you have to know them but they can be on the other side). 2nd you can tell them youll call them durring half time and in between stuff (I dont talk footbALL

Answer 5

Sadly, parent's don't change overnight. My parents are usually very lenient, but sometimes (on rare occasions.) they are overprotective. What I did was I proved to them that I was really responsible. I did extra chores, and I make my own money through a jewelery business, so that I do not have to ask them for any money. (They usually offer to give me a bit, though, just in case.) Also, I would return their calls unless I was at the movies, since you can;t call there obviously. They began to trust me, and now I have a lot more priviliges. Good luck, and hopefull everything will get better soon. If it makes you feel better, my friend isn't even allowed to stay home alone, and we are 13 and a half! (I think that is really extreme, though, we live in a very safe neighborhood. I have stayed home alone since I was 8, haha.)

Answer 6

let your parents go with you BUT talk to the sales ticket man before your parents come in and tell himm that you want seperate seats like somewhere on the other side of the stadium then meet up with your friends before them and leave before them and later tell them that you already left with your friends

maybe this isnt the best advice so here's something else

ask them things like "what do i have to do for you to let me go"

say it in a respectful way not  a whiney or a demanding way

thats all i got hope i helped

Answer 7

My advice to you would be to let them go to the game.  They could sit higher up that way they can keep an eye on you.  Once they see that there is nothing to worry about they will let you go with your friends alone next time.  Seems like your dad is trying to compromise and you're not having it.  When I was in high school my parents just said no, they didn't even offer to go with me.  They may even see that you being okay with them going to the game as very mature of you.  As you get older they will relax more I promise.  

Answer 8

spend time with them later

Answer 9

Uh.. my parents usually give in to a lot of stuff (but I don't ask for a lot of stuff) that I ask for, so I usually just keep trying to give more and more reasons to let me go. Sometimes I promise to do chores and stuff if they'll let me do what I whatever it is I want to do. I would try to just apologize to your mom if you want to try that. I hope this helped c:

Answer 10

Hey just tell your mom your sorry. try to ask your dad if he could just drop you off i know how parents get.

But any way just try to tell your dad you'll be at the game and your friends will be there and they already seats picked out and there is not enough room and that you'll call him when the game is over. i

if he still tries to come then when you get to the game ask if he will stand in line and get you something then try to disappear with your friends, and if later he asks you why you left just tell him your friends walked off and you followed them, or tell him they dragged you to the stands to sit down

try and try to choose a seat that not that visible for the food stand or entrance so it will hard for your dad to find you.

hope it works out

Answer 11

try to do something reeeeeally nice, like wash dishes or say you got an A or something ,

they might let it slide.

Answer 12

throw potatoes at them.

that always works.

Answer 13

Your parents are responsible for you until you  move out of their home.  Either you go with your father or you don't go to this game, the choice is yours.   Stop acting like a baby and face the consequences of your actions (fighting with your mother).  

Answer 14

well you are in a pickle arent you. cant u either apologise to your mom get her to forgive you and then take you. or could you go with your dad and get him to invite someone as well like his brother or mate or something, and then ditch them when you get there and hang out with your friends. good idea id day...lol  

Answer 15

you sound a little spoiled.

i mean if your parents do all that for you, you shouldnt be like this you should be thankful that they let you do all that,

get over it and find a friend thats not doing anything and do something with them.

Answer 16

you're a selfish, ungrateful little girl

Answer 17

just go with your dad and you can chill with your friends away from him while he watches the game. im sure there will be plenty of people he knows there, and if its such a huge stadium chances of seeing him, if thats a big deal, will be slim. just plan to meet him after

Answer 18

YOU SHOULD BUILD UP SOME CONFIDENCE WITH THEM..  LET THEM KNOW YOU KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF.. SHOW THEM YOUR RESPONSIBLE... DO CHORES TELL YOUR MOM SORRY GIVE YOUR SELF A CURFEW... TELL THEM YOU PROMISE TO BE HOME BY THIS TIME AND THAT TO CALL WHEN EVER THEY LIKE AND GIVE THEM AN EXTRA NUMBER LIKE YOUR FRIENDS JUST IN CASE YOU DON'T ANSWER