my older nephew is almost 9 I have a 3 year old boy, the older one is always provoking the younger one to hit and throw things, he calls him names and says things to taunt him, i have caught him doing this many times...... as well as lying and blaming the baby which is sometimes the truth, he also doesn't understand how much of an age gap 5 years is when it comes to discipline. I try to tell him that when my youngest is older he will have the same rules and expectations but he thinks we're just picking on him because we don't love him, he has chores and is expected to talk to us with respect, which is a huge problem lately........We honestly try and treat him fair, show him love, tough love at times, even tend to over compensate for birthdays and Christmas, bcuz of his background, which has always back fired because he does not appreciate anything, he continues to say we don't buy him anything and we are "so mean" he has a 50cc motorcycle as well as many other nice things?
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