HOW CAN I GAIN MY PARENT TRUST..AGAIN?!?!?

Question

I'm 15..going on 16..i'm a girl..i got drunk last november..since then my parents haven't trust me..they wouldn't let me go out..so i ditched school with my friends..then one day my parent found out..they don't let me hang out with them..i understand them..but i want to go out again..and i already told my mom that i'm not going to drink..HELP ME..how can i make my parents trust me again..please..thanks.

Answer 1

You could try writing a long and detailed account of everything you did when you went drinking, and exactly how you understand that how wrong it was to do that, and then give it to them to read.

Answer 2

itll take a long time to get that trust back. start by like talking to them regularly. and dont lie to them. its hard to get trust back.  

Answer 3

i don't think they will ever fully trust you again...what you did was very irresponsible....just do what ever you can to make them trust you...and your parents are right in saying that you shouldn't hang out with your friends...if you keep cutting school with them then they might not be very good influences...do what they say because they love you and they are only trying to give you the best life possible...even though it might seem like it(my parents do that kinda stuff to me all the time and i just do whatever they ask like a dog...it works to my advantage) but if they do strust you again dont make teh same mistakes

Answer 4

Since you acted up more than once, you have a long way to go.  How long?  It depends on you.

Be responsible.  Do your chores without being asked and whining.  If they let you do anything - be home 15 minutes early.

When you act like a child, you'll be treated as one.  If you start growing up, follow their rules, don't mouth off - they will begin to see that you are maturing and should begin to allow you some freedom.

Once they give you another chance, make sure you don't mess up - at all.  If you do, they may never trust you again.  And I mean don't be even five minutes late, don't smell of smoke, pot, booze, or anything else.