HOW CAN I GET OVER THIS??SCORPIO BREAK UP???

Question

Okay...me and my ex boyfriend have been on and off for 3 years...I always break things off with him for reasons i can't really explain...but the last time i broke up with him is because he was talking to this other girl on myspace and flirting with her and telling her how he always loved her and things like that...when i found out i told him i never wanted to speak to him again and i erased his number from my phone and we stopped talking for a month....UNTIL..i decided to get back on good terms with him because fo our job situation that's coming up...because i figured i can't work with him if we can't even be respectful...but i wabt to get over him but it's not going to be easy now that i found out he's staying home.(before, he sad he was moving to another town but i guess his plans changed)...he was my first love so i guess that's why it's so hrd...BUT I REAAAALLLYYY NEED SOMEONE'S ADVICE...OR JUST ANYTHING!!nut the funny thing is i never really trusted him to begin with...hmmmm...but how can i work with him??and we're TWO VERY JEALOUS PEOPLE BY THE WAY!!! so how can i move on???because i want a guy that will treat me so much better...im ready to close this chapter in my life but this page is so interesting and hard to turn...please help...

CHARTS:

ME

SUN:SCORPIO

MOON:LIBRA

MERCURY:SCORPIO

VENUS:SCORPIO

MARS:SAGITTARIUS

HIM

SUN:SCORPIO

MOON:SAGITTARIUS

MERCURY:SCORPIO

VENUS;SAGITTARIUS

MARS:CANCER

Answer 1

Stay strong and move on..

Answer 2

You know the answer and what to do - you're a Scorp ;)

The fact that you have ask - answers the question.

Cut the cord - when you are ready :))

Answer 3

Ahhh Aya speaks the truth. If I were you I would think about all the times he disrespected you and hurt you. Let that linger in your mind everytime you think about him. You don't have to be all buddy buddy when you two work together. Just pretend that he's another regular employee. Good luck!

Answer 4

Well, love, I'll tell you I had a very similar problem and situation with my boyfriend. I found him cheating on me and two-timing with this other girl on myspace as well. I blew up big time, as you can guess. I kept sending him hateful message after hateful message after hateful message for a month, give-or-take a couple of weeks. I should've just gotten over him, left him and let him be and continue on with my life, a lot like what you should do now. But I couldn't because I wanted answers to my unanswered questions. Like why and how and what the h**l did I ever do to him to deserve this kind of hurt?? He never answered a one of them, he just read then deleted them all. Until one when I said to him that I was calm and just wanted to talk to him to get things settled. He replied to this and said how he was willing to talk if I really had calmed down because he was trying his hardest not to get angry or the least bit upset. Well, that really didn't go much further past that, I'll tell you.

It was weeks later before he ever replied to another message of mine. In this message that son of "you know what" actually let this new hussy bimbo tramps *** ***** of his join in in writing it. (I hated that, to say the absolute least.) But the things he told me in this message hit me hard. It's all very complicated and personal but to make a long story a little bit shorter, my dragon-lady guard was down and I stopped breathing fire long enough to make a fairly heartfelt reply. This time off of the right emotions, you know? Not just anger. And then immediately after I sent another quick message. He read and replied to them both right after I had sent them. Unfortunately I had to leave to run erins, but after I got home I read his messages and made an even more heartfelt reply explaining myself, my actions, and how I felt and how it all hurt me so very, very much.

Well, needless to say he started to break a little bit himself. In his reply to my explanation he said at the end how he still cared for me and there was and will always be apart of him that loved me. With this in mind and heart I felt rejuvenated and full of hope again. I sent my reply and that night he and I talked over IM. The very first thing he said to me was, "Do you honestly think things will work?" I felt and knew that because he said this he did start feeling things for me again. The next 2 days we talked over IM again and more and more of our bad air was cleared. A couple days later he emailed me and let me know that he had made his decision and the choice was to give us another chance. We've been working on it ever since and have made quite the progress.

Love, with all of this in mind, you know you need closer yourself, too. Talk to him, ask him the questions you have if you feel that's the right thing to do. Simply ask him why; why would he do this to you. Then let yourselves have that long awaited fight and let things be after that. You'll most likely feel a lot better after having gotten it all out. And hopefully, you will then be able to work together more civilly. Your bad air needs to be cleared and most likely the best way to do this is with the wind of spoken words.

Then let your Scorpio-self shine through and let all your emotions and feelings for him vanish as quickly as that. You know Scorpios can do this better than other other of the Western Zodiac signs.

Much luck to you.

Answer 5

it is always hard to move on you cant think about it or it will get worse the right guy will come one day just wait and you will find him

Answer 6

I'll just put this simply: would you want to stay with a jerk who told another girl he's loved *her* all his life while he was with you?

He's a hypocrite, not worthy of any heartbreak. There, done.

(PS: I'm sure you can keep private and work floor seperate)