HOW CAN I GET THROUGH TO MY BOYFRIEND AND LET HIM KNOW I LOVE HIM AND WANT TO GET OUR OWN APT TOGETHER?

Question

OKAY! SO I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS NOW AND WE CURRENTLY RENT MY AUNTS HOUSE AND HIS BROTHER IS LIVING WITH US TOO.

HERE IS WHAT I WANT TO DO FOR MANY REASONS.

SINCE WE HAVE TO MOVE OUT SOON, I SUGGESTED TO MY BOYFRIEND FOR US TO GET OUR OWN APARTMENT OR STUDIO TOGETHER BECAUSE HIS BROTHER IS JUST TO MUCH DRAMA.

AS IN DRAMA: I MEAN HE PARTY'S TO MUCH AT THE HOUSE AND MAKES MESSES AND MOST OF THE TIME IS ME CLEANING UP AFTER THE BEER CANS/BOTTLES, LEFT OVER FOOD, STAINS IN MY WHITE COUCHES. OH WHAT A PAIN IN THE ***!!! BECAUSE OF HIM BEING LOUD AND STUFF WE HAVE TO FIND A NEW PLACE TO STAY! I TOLD HIS BRO TO CHILL AND RESPECT , BUT HE DOESN'T GIVE A RATS *** ABOUT ANYTHING BUT HIMSELF.

NOW MY THING IS HE IS 23 HAS A STABLE JOB, AND HE COULD FIND HIS OWN PLACE NOW WITH HIS GIRL. AS I WANT TO DO WITH MY HUBBY! I HAVE MENTIONED IT MANY TIMES BUT I GET A MAYBE OR LETS SEE WHAT HAPPENS OR I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT.

MY BEST FRIEND TELLS ME TO STEP UP AND SAY WHAT I FEEL BUT THERE BROTHER AND I DON'T WANT TO COME BETWEEN THEM OR START DRAMA.

HOW CAN I GET IT CLEARED OUT THAT IT'S TIME TO MOVE FORWARD AND APART FROM THE BROTHER?

DO YOU THINK MY HUBBY IS SCARED TO MOVE IN TOGETHER ALONE? WHAT IS IT?

I'M CONFUSED, FRUSTRATED AND KIND OF UPSET BECAUSE NOTHING I SAY MATTERS. :(

Answer 1

You need to take your man out to dinner or somewhere where just the two of you can talk and lay it down with him. And make him answer and how he feels about you 2 living together. Tell him that you feel its time to branch off from his brother and you 2 start a life. Dont put down his brother cuz that will just make him mad and defensve just tell him that you want to have a place with him and you only. You have to get him away from the house when you ask him this because peoples answers will change when you get them out of thier comfort zone and make them think more clear. Goodluck!

Answer 2

Caps much?

Answer 3

caps much

OVBIOUSLY

you knew you had the caps on

who wrights something that long

adn dosent relize it

are you kidding me right now?

Answer 4

TOO MANY CAPITALS!

ITS LIKE YOUR SHOUTING AT US!