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HOW CAN YOU TELL IF A BOY IS USING YOU JUST TO HOLD HIM UP?

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WELL THERE'S THIS BOY I'VE BEEN DATING. HE TALKS TO OTHER GIRLS, BUT ALWAYS DENIES IT. HOW DO I KNOW IF HE IS ONLY USING ME TO HOLD HIM UP WHEN HE GOES THROUGH ALL OF HIS PROBLEMS. I MEAN HE 'S A COOL PERSON BUT I NEED TO KNOW. CAUSE I ALREADY BEEN HURT BY HIM, AND I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT AGAIN.

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ok did u know your caps lock is on start by taking that off then dump him
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I suggest you talk with him. Then, if he hesitates before saying something, or stalls, then he is most likely thinking of what to LIE about. Dump him if he hesitates a lot.
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Ask the girls that he was talking to if he was flirting with them, or just talking. If he was flirting, then dump his @$$!
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ew he's not worth it
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if you don't let them use you and they are ok with it that means they are not using you if they are not ok with it means that they want to use you. If he just talk to them it should be fine unless he flirts with them.
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Obviously hes just using you. Get rid of him make him look bad.
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ask him
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"Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me"

Don't give him the chance to hurt you again. lol If only it was that easy though...I'd talk to him, and warn him that is he keeps lying, even if its just innocent you will walk. You deserve better.
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Dump his ***.
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JUST STOP SUPPORTING HIM/BEING HIS MOM

AND SEE IF HE STICKS AROUND

IF HE STICKS AROUND HE IS NOT JUST USING YOU

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Follow your head and not your heart cuz they'll tell you two different things. And only one is right. It's hard to let go but if you know it's the right thing to do then you should go ahead and not keep wasting time being where you know you shouldn't be.
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Whenever you want to figure out what someone's true feelings are, look at their actions ... not their words. That will always give you the true picture.
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by the usage of CAPS LOCK
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He wants you at his convenience. If you think someone who can't be completely faithful is cool, you're not really interested in knowing the truth. The truth is, you know you can do better. But are you going to listen to what you already know?? If he's already hurt you, chances are pretty good that he'll do it again. Listen to your head this time- not your heart.
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well you have sorta answered it yourself. hes hurt you once that is shame on you if he does it again shame on you double time cause you are letting him. hes talking to girls and you know it but hey he says hes not. this is called a player and hes using you big time so dump him.
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