HOW DO I GET HER WITHOUT PISSING HER OFF?

Question

MY GIRLFRIEND IS PREGNANT AND LIVES IN ANOTHER STATE. SHE'S 17 AND I'M 18. THIS THANKSGIVING I'M COMING DOWN TO PURPOSE TO HER AND TRY TO TAKE HER TO MY STATE. THE PROBLEM IS SHE WON'T LET ME TELL HER PARENTS SHE'S PREGNANT. I'M SURE THEY'D GIVE HER TO ME IF I COULD TELL THEM. SHE MAKES THINGS SO COMPLICATED, CAN ANYONE SIMPLIFY THIS FOR ME, GIVE ME SOME ADVICE?

Answer 1

try to find out the reason why she want to do it .. then resolve the problem

best of luck  

Answer 2

well your girlfriend doesnt want her parents knowing mostly because she believes they would judge her! and well S: u can see where thats coming from BUT reassuring her about everything, including you, might allow her to let go! sooo just talk to her!

Also ... try not to force her into anything.. because in the end.. it will all be your fault.

p.s. all girls are complicated.. because we think with out hearts.. not our heads.. unfortunately

goodluckk

Answer 3

Your question is riddled with the fact that you are immature, sorry but its true.

If you got your gf pregnant then her parents need to know, have you told your parents ?

You dont have to propose marriage and at your age I dont think its a good idea, but you do need to support her.

Her parents wont "give her to you" they will be angry with you as she has already given HERSELF to you.

Be sensible and talk this over with your girl, sooner or later her parents will find out and you should be there to take the consequences and not let her do that on her own, after all you were the one that got her pregnant.

She is going to need her mum in the months to come so better start making your peace now.

Answer 4

I'm having problems with the "Give her to me" part.  Marriage is NOT ownership in any way shape or form.  Back to the pregnancy, she NEEDS to tell them.  She needs to be seeing a doctor in order to insure a healthy child.  But it's not YOUR place to tell them her condition.  It's hers.  

(While your intentions are honorable, you are BOTH to young to be married)

Answer 5

i think you need to talk to her parents with out her to know about it & suprice her

what you think about that>?

:)....................

Answer 6

She needs to tell her parents herself she is pregnant and when she is ready she will. They are going to find out sooner or later so just keep trying to convince HER to tell her parents. She is probobaly still shocked and needs some time do decide what she wants.

Answer 7

You have some good answers and I hope you will listen to what you're being told. If you are the father of the child, then you need to be there with her if you can when her parents find out she's pregnant.

She is not making things more complicated. The fact is, they are already complicated by a pregnancy at this age. You're young. How are you going to work this out? If you aren't planning to see her until Thanksgiving, I'm realizing that you aren't independent and don't have the ability to just travel on your own. Because of this, how are you going to support a wife and child?

You definitely need your parents and her parents help with this one. It's more complicated than you see on the surface. HOWEVER, I admire you for wanting to take responsibility. That shows character and concern for another person. You will make it. This will be hard, but both of you can survive and grow through this. You just your need parents help.