HUGE mistake, abuse relationship and he wants s*x from me???

Question

Long story short: I was just depressed, NO parental figures, so I hooked up with this guy. Really nice in the beginning but said the only way to make him happy in return was to give him s*x. Big mistake, but I fell for it. I guess I was vulnerable, but I'm not making excuses or forgiving myself.

Now I'm in this cycle of an abuse relationship where he is nice to me when he forces me do ALL KINDS of NASTY stuff to him. After a while he gets mad and hits me because the s*x isn't good enough and he wants more. Its at a point where its like 10 times a day and to tell the truth....its really painful both physically and mentally and I'm worn out. I've told him I'm going to the police twice but he beat me and said I can't do this to him. I always feel guilty afterwards, help??

Answer 1

go to the police now, it only gets worse i promise you.

Answer 2

GURL  U MUST BE CRAZY!!! how do u feel guilty... do u want to get beat just because u dont "please" some guy... almost just like s*x slavin gurl go to the police and get some help and stop feelin guilty. u should feel proud when you go to the police. this is basically rape...

Answer 3

just don't tell him about going to the police..GO TO THE POLICE before it gets worse..im sorry and hope everything works out

Answer 4

OMFG!!! hollly ****, dude! get the h**l off of here and get so help!! put that b*****d in a pyco ward!!!

omg, omg omg!!!

i'll say a prayer fer u!!

go get the cops, now, RIGHT NOW!!!

hit him back!

Answer 5

You need to get out of that relationship, he has no right to lay a hand on you.   Call the police file a report and get a restraining order.

You need to get out of that relationship for your own safety and sanity.

Answer 6

i have the perfect answer for you, lose your mind one time, i mean really lose it, next time he puts his hands on you grab any and everything and start target practice, if you run out of stuff, grab a knife and threaten to cut his balls off when he goes to sleep, if none of this works, wait until he falls asleep and wake him up with the worst *** whipping you can ever give a sleepy *** man. trust me it works, been there done that, you have to show him that you are not scared of him, if you leave and do  nothing he will keep finding you, give him a reason not to come look for you.

Answer 7

You are a classic abuse victim -- he's got your head so f&cked up that you are feeling guilty for being beaten!?!  

Go to the police.  Actually, the next time he has s*x with you, go to the emergency room and tell them that you need a rape kit and need to file a rape report -- it was not consensual s*x, and they can take pictures and the necessary samples to arrest his butt.  If you are under 18, go to a children's hospital, if there's one near by.

Get a restraining order taken out against him so that he can't come near you.

And reclaim your life.  You deserve a life full of love and happiness -- not this mockery of a relationship that has made s*x a disgusting chore.

((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))...  You can do it.  PLEASE.

Answer 8

im going to give you the best advice ever.

go to the police.

call 911 and tell your parents or guardian...now. right now. go do it!

dont think twice just do it.

and stay away from him .

dont be alone especially with him.

call the police.

hopei helped!

good luck

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Answer 9

DON'T FEEL GUILTY FOR THAT NO GOOD, WASTE OF SPERM AND OXYGEN. DON'T TELL JUST HEAD FOR THE POLICE. CALL NOW, GO NOW. DON'T WAIT, OR TELL. JUST GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Stop telling him about it and just go to the cops. Im so serious. Go. NOW. Get off here and go to the Police!!

Answer 11

dead serious. leave him. go to the police. do not tell him anything. it has to stop.