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I am 14 years old i and I am going into the high school soonand I hate the district that I live in the people suck so i want to move and my mom just fought yesterday about and asked if i wanted to go to cyber school and i just wanted to go to a differnt school but she said she'll think about it. Also I'm really bothered you know how it was just fathers day well I was abused by my little sisters biological dad when i was really little and I thought this guy was my dad but my mom was abused as well and he always had to go to jail and he made me miss a lot of school even kindergarden and I had to go to court when I was 5 but before I was born my mom had a husband and they had three kids (my half brothers) but then he got shot. My mom was horrified and became and alcoholic I never saw her that much when I was little I just saw police crying abuse and death. Then in fifth grade I was getting out of the habit of missing school but I missed the first day of school because my pap (from my sister' s dad side) died I then got depression and stayed inside all summer. Then in sixth grade my grammy (from my sister' s dad side) died I got more depressed my mom's parents told me that the guy who abused my wasnt my real dad that my dad was somewhere else and that I never met him my mom never wanted to tell me and i still never met him or heard about him. also in sixth grade my mom came home want night and my little sister came and said "mom stumbling up the steps" then I knew she was drunk. Then I heard a boom sound I had so many butterflies in my stomach i thought i was going to fly away then me and my older brother (who is like a dad to me) went in my moms room and she was lying on the floor I was sooo scared and I heard the police come and the ambulance so me and my sister went downstairs in my brothers room. Th e police said she was in a car wreck before that and their was a dent in her car. My mom went to the hospital and the neighbors were all standing out on their lawn watching my family go through h**l and across the street was my best friend. I actually went to school the next day and it seemed liked no one cared and I was thinking my mother is dead but when I got home I found out my mom was alright she had alcohol poisoning. then in seventh grade my dog died (angel) i couldn't deal with everything I been seeing the guidance counselor ever since the 6th grade. also i lost my best friend in 7th grade also i lost the best person ever in like fifth grade she went to another school And she was like my family I went over her house every weekend and and she took me on vacation and they paid for everything. I miss my best friends and family. And one of the best times I had when I felt hte most important is when I went out with the hottest guy ever in sixth grade everyone knew him which made them know me and he even went to a different school and we were the best couple I never been so happy and he was my first kiss and grind. Then I broke up with him because of certain reasons thats hard to explain. Also through everything I've gone through its hard to trust people. Also this year i was in my brothers ( the brother who is like a dad to me) room playing xbox then I saw a bag behind the tv i opened and there were pills and yellow bottles that said testorene and i read the paper that came with it and it said inject in the arm I started balling and no one was home then I told my mom the next day and she didnt seem suprisedi was scared and then the next night my mom came home drunk yelling at my brother and my brother who is nineteen started crying and saying " i swear to god on my dad's grave I didn't do anything" and my was being ridiculous although i didn't know who to believe it was very emotional i never heard my brother like that ever.and also my brothers girlfriend was there and my brother talked to me and said im sorry you had to see that I dont even know what to say. so i forgave and oh yea this is the day before easter! Oh yea it gets better I went to my grandparents house the next day for easter and after the dinner I go on the computer right next to the living room and my family was talking about steve my brother and steve wasnt there because my pap was furious at him at they were saying steve is going to die hes a bad kid blah blah blah and my heart broke (I've always looked up to steve) and my mom sees me crying and tells everyone to stop and and my other brothers come ands says everything is ok and i think deja vu. It was the worst thing easter ever and I hate every holiday even christmas my mom goes out on christmas eve and she comes home drunk and get horrible presents for me on christmas. Phew alot of typing trust me alot more horrible things happened like my brother has heart disease, I ran away before, I tried to comit suicide, a lot of pain was endured, got teased and wayyyyyyy more and some howi still wake up each morning and keep moving. THE QUESTION IS SO I UNDERSTAND WHAT IS YOUR LIFE LIKE? WHAT SHOULD I DO TO IMPROVE MY LIFE????????!!!!!!!!!?????????

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  1. yea im sorry that is mega long


  2. you go to social services, tell them everything, and tell them to take you out of the situation, ask them to help you, and hopefully they can get you placed in foster home where you can get some stability

    also a therapist will help you, so if you can get a therapist and stabilie foster parents then over time things will become better for you...hopefully it will lead to any other minors as well goes to a foster home so they too can grow up as healthy humans

    and there is a risk if there is distance that you intialy may loose some of the contact with your sibs, but over time you can write letters and refamiliate yourself with them when you are an adult, and because your happier and healthier you will enjoy it more then...and who know you may be lucky and see them still frequently if time and distance allow it

    but its better you loose a couple years then loose your lives.

  3. Sweetheart, i think you should go to your doctor and see if there is a facility that you can go to and stay awhile to get some help.

    There is nothing wrong with you.  You have A LOT of unhealthy things going on in and around your life.  It is very mature of you to recognize that this is NOT normal.   But...you will need a professional person to help you figure out where to go from here and how you can move on with out being affected so much.  

    Keep you head up and stay strong.  Stay out of trouble and don't get mixed in with the wrong crowd..... even if it is the hottest guy in school.  don't date anyone or become someone;s friend just bc they are popular.  decide who will be your friends.. by who you can trust.  if you can trust them ... make them your friend.  if you can't...then don't.  and if people do things that you know are wrong... don't make them your friends either.

    tell your counselor you want to go to a place you can stay at that is not your home... maybe you should call Dyfus?

    it sounds like you are not being taken care of properly.

    i'm sorry that your bother let you down.  that must of hurt real bad.  he was the one person you trusted and looked up to.. and to find out that he was doing bad things...probably really hurt.

    just know that there are truly good people in this world.  they are VERY hard to find... but SOOOO worth the time it takes to find them.

    if there is no facility you can got to...ask your counselor if there is a "support group" in your area that you can go to.  like attend meetings once a week with people that are in similar situations as you.  if you can't talk to your counselor right away ... i would just search online.  google "Support groups - and the town you live in."

    also, did you tell anyone that your mom is an alcoholic? if not...tell your counselor.  your mom needs help too.  telling someone about her problem will get her the help she needs.

    hang in there

    i wish you all the best :)

  4. I'm sorry but I just couldn't read that entire thing. You might get more answers if you try to sum that story up and use less run-on sentences so it's easier to read.

  5. OMG sweetie, you need to narrow it down.

  6. you know I've been through rough times too, drug addiction, 7 suicide attempts, anorexia, i was teased as well in high school I had no friends. But what helped me a lot was going to see the school therapist. And I also changed school in grade 8th and made ONE friend but she's been my friend for 8 years now. The therapist helped me to go through all those things because being a teenager isn't as easy as everyone think.If you could just see a therapist or someone really close to you it can help.

    as well a writing a journal. I remember hating myself and I wrote a letter to myself and at the end of the letter I signed it and my therapist told me to give it to her, she read it and then we went outside and burnt it :) it felt amazing.

    So go ahead! Why not try? It always help to talk to someone we don't know that can't judge.

    Lots of love,

    May xxxx

  7. thts a lot of writing

  8. you ether deserve an award for fiction or you life is a living h**l

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