Had a 3some, feeling not good about it...

Question

After having a few drinks, I invited my best friend over. My boyfriend doesn't like her so he went to bed. She arrived and he woke up and came and sat with us. My best friend is bisexual, and my boy wanted a 3some for a long long time (been together 5 years). He brings it up, I say yes because I'd rather it be with my best friend than anyone else... So off to the room we go... Well for the next 4 hours I watched him have s*x with her... at one point they knocked me off the bed... she was getting uncomfortable and wanted to stop, then he came and got her again so off they went again... he gave her head, sucked her ****, ****** her every way possible... told her how hot she was and what a nice p***y she had...

I'm sooo upset over this... I was depressed for 2 weeks... In the past, he's always mentioned 3somes when she was around but this was the first time we ever went thru with it... Its obvious he just wanted to **** her... Can I get over this? I'm not feeling too good. He told me a couple of days ago that we haven't had good s*x in 5 months! but he cums within 2 minutes everytime... I'm so confused... Is this repairable? Am I right to feel jelous if I agreed to it? I heard that when you have 3somes that the guy only wants them to see his girl get freaky, but he paid NO attention to me...

Answer 1

there are good 3 sums and bad ones. you clearly had a bad one thru no fault of your own. we had one with my wife's best friend but i made sure my wife was treated like a princess that night. that was 5 years ago and the last time we had one.your boyfriend is an idiot for telling her all those things when he should have told you all those things.you should have been the maine course that night and your friend should have been the side dish. anyway sorry for you.

Answer 2

That's ******* horrible. When I read this, I couldn't help but feel like I want to kill your boyfriend. He obviously likes her if he ****** her for 4 hours and you watched. That is so terrible. That's not a threesome because you aren't included at all! That's just your a*****e boyfriend ******* your best friend and you watching! Dump him. Dump him. Dump him. Dump him. Dump him. You have every right to feel jealous, and you should just murder him. Have s*x with his best friend and make him watch, see how he feels about it. ******* christ. I want to kill him. What a douche bag. Leave him, find someone better. And find someone that can satisfy you sexually instead of this ******* d**k you're dating now.

Alright, I'm going to give real advice now. Sorry about that. I can't express how pissed this makes me feel. Anyways. Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. Relationships are all about communication - so just let him know. Then you can leave him. Find someone better. Good luck.  

Answer 3

Did you not even get to have an o****m?

Next time I wouldn't invite him to join the fun