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Had dinner with my ex last night and ... I'm lost for words ... what now ?

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So... dinner last night went well after responding to her facebook invite 5 hours before the dinner event. She flirted with me off on at the dinner and shockingly offered to pay, but I paid against my roommates wishes because she offered to pay prior to inviting me out. I was shocked to see how honest she was telling me what she has been going through in the past months. My heart was so broken when she broke up with me and now the invite to dinner through facebook after 6 months scared me, but I want more. We only dated for 5 months and things moved so fast with my new job and meeting her that I never had the time to spend with her. After dinner I walked her to her car and she said she had a good time and wanted to know what I was doing the next day... and told me to call her. It up raining again in Florida and I canceled but I'm trying to figure out what next ? We talked about a movie night at my place because we really never did that and she said she is open to that and told me the days that she is off work, but I don't want to move to fast with her. Her favorite song when we were together was "Billy Ocean"Caribbeann Queen" and I want to send her a voice note before I go to bed tonight with that song. Good idea ? What should I do next ? ,,,, Thanks !

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  1. If you *now* have time for her, proceed as you would with any woman you want as a girlfriend. But if you still don't have time for her, this is going to end up the same way. Good luck.


  2. I love the idea of you sending her a voice note before you go to bed tonight.

    Well in this instance, time has made the heart grow fonder.  She's remembering all the good times she had with you.  And you're remembering all the good times too, but with caution since she hurt you in the end.

    What does she like to do for fun and activities?  Do you have any common interests other than eating and watching movies?

    Does she have email?  Why don't you get to know her through writing?  Then while you're on a date you can chat about the latest thing you or she had written about.

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