Hadhrath Ayesha's jealousy of Hadhrath Khadija is clear proof that she was not the most superior wife.

Question

In Sahih Bukhari Hadith: 5.166 Ayesha herself narrates:

"I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet as much as I did of Khadija though I did not see her, but the Prophet used to mention her very often, and whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would cut its parts and send them to the women friends of Khadija. When I sometimes said to him, "(You treat Khadija in such a way) as if there is no woman on earth except Khadija," he would say, "Khadija was such-and-such, and from her I had children."

Jealousy is a trait inherent in a person who is envious of the superior position of another, and Ayesha's admission "I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet as much as I did of Khadija", is clear proof that Ayesha was fully aware of the superior rank of Hadhrath Khadija. Had Ayesha indeed been the most superior wife there would have been no need for her to be jealous.

These four women are the most superior in rank amongst women. Only one wife of Rasulullah (s) is selected in this group and that wife is Hadhrath Khadija (as) NOT Ayesha. This tradition PROVES that Khadija is the MOST superior amongst Rasulullah's wives. If Ayesha was, then why did Rasulullah (s) to not elevate her to the station of Leaders of women in Paradise?

What do you guys say to this?

Answer 1

good question bro

Answer 2

I agree with you in case of Aisha,

and you should agree with me in case of Ali as well.

Because Ali as being first cousin of Muhammad pbuh, and specially when Muhammad pbuh lived under patronage of Abu-Talib, in the house of Ali's father, Ali had some sort of feeling of equality with Muhammad pbuh,

So Ali was also jealous of Muhammad pbuh, as it was a natural trait, he made a parallel group "s**+'aan al Ali", during life span of Muhammad pbuh.

Ali and his sons tried to hi-jac Islam to turn Islam on their own way. That resulted in Shia'ism.

ALI & AISHA BOTH ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE OF ALL BLOODSHED IN ISLAM'S EARLY AGE AND ALL THE SECTS AS WELL.

s**+'aan al Aisha (Wahhabi's) and s**+'aan al Ali (Shia's), both created big mess in Islam.

Answer 3

Typical stupid shia !!

well i see there is no Harm in this Hadith this is Human and Normal

and yes while you picked up a Hadith from Bukhari which mean you believe in and you tryed to prove your point from it

but

why don't you read the other Hadith which is in the same book

which brother Abul Haarith provide for you ?

lol

i know you just copy and paste from shias site without thinking  and you look now stupid  this is a lesson for you !

lol shias remind me by anti-Islam when they cut Ayah from Quran with out finishing it !

and for all read the answer by Abul Haarith !

both of you anti-islam so no difference  

Answer 4

It is clear proof that she was human.

Answer 5

(lol) That Doesn't Prove Anything.

Khadijah(r.aa) was already a wise & old lady when she married the Prophet Muhammad(pbuh), 'A'isha(r.aa) was a spirited young girl who still had a great deal to learn when she(r.aa) married the Prophet, (may Allah be pleased with her, and peace be upon him) she(r.a) was very quick to learn, however, for she(r.aa) had a clear heart, and a quick mind and an accurate memory.

She(r.aa) was not afraid to talk back in order to find out the truth or make it known, and whenever she(r.aa) beat someone else in argument, the Prophet would smile and say, "She is the daughter of Abu Bakr!" Musa ibn Talha(r.a) once said, "I have not seen anyone more eloquent than 'A'isha(r.aa)." 'A'isha (may Allah be pleased with her) became so wise that one of her(r.a) contemporaries used to say that if the knowledge of 'A'isha(r.aa) were placed on one side of the scales that of all other women on the other, 'A'isha 's(r.aa)side would outweigh the other.

She(r.aa) used to sit with the other women and pass on the knowledge that she had received from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and long after he had died, and as long as she(r.aa) lived, she(r.aa) was a source of knowledge and wisdom for both women and men. Abu Musa(r.a) once said, "Whenever a report appeared doubtful to us, the Companions of the Prophet(pbuh), and we asked 'A'isha(r.aa) about it, we always learned something from her about it."

'A'isha(r.aa) reported that the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) had told her that Jibril came to him and showed him a picture of her on a piece of green silk and said, "She is your wife in this world and in the next world."

edit @ Muhammad Ishfaq A , Your have some wrong Information my dear ! nor ALI(r.a) & nor AISHA(r.aa) RESPONSIBLE FOR BLOODSHED but they were the Hypocrites who are Responsible for that.NOR Ali(r.a) created any sect called as s**+'aan al Ali . s**+'aan al Ali was something created by  "Abdullah Ibn Saba"

Answer 6

Salam for you my dear friend. Yes I agree with you that jealousy of Aisha the youngest wife of Muhammad pbuh  to Siti Hadijah is the clear proof that she was not the most superior woman(wife).It is the evidence that she loved so much her husband Muhammad pbuh.

It is also the proof that Aisha was only a human who was imperfect.

Aisha had emotion and sin too.Aisha was not a prophet who was sinless or ma'sum.Aisha  was just the same with another women who had jealous feeling.

Answer 7

Khadijah (AS) is the superior wife and most beloved to the Prophet. People please don't defend the gheera of Aisha, it's not a good trait. Khadijah is one of the 4 chosen women who are the greatest in the world. The Prophet (SAW) did not marry over her and he loved her so much. There is not a single story of him getting mad at her but there are many about Aisha's disobedience and annoying of the Prophet. Khadijah gave the Prophet a daughter, Fatimah (AS), and she is the only offspring of the Prophet that lived. As much as he loved his daughter he must have loved his wife immensly.

About that hadith mentioned above of those most beloved to the Prophet, there is another version that says the most beloved woman to the Prophet is his daughter and the most beloved of the men is her husband (Ali (AS)). (Reference will be given on demand if I can find it)

Answer 8

What the h**l are you trying to say?

That Hazrat Aisha was jealous from Hazrat Khadija? Is there any difference at all to u between jealousy and envy? There are many people in Y/A whom I envy, because they have more knowledge than me. Does it mean that I am v. stupid? And Ayesha (R.A) was stupid too? (nauzubillah!)

Why r u creating fitna? What does it matter who was better? It is haram for u to make fun of the Umm Ul Mominin!

If she was so bad, why did she admit that she was envious of Khadija? Doesn't it show how pure hearted she was? She's actually saying that she felt Khadija (A.S) was superior to her!

Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said: "Ayesha has this much superiority over  other women as 'surayd' has over other foods!"

What's ur problem? If Ayesha (R.A) is better than Khadija (R.A), or Khadija (R.A) was better than her, how will it affect ur job or business?

Answer 9

She is a human and so are all of us :) atleast she is honest unlike some of us.

She felt jealous because the prophet (s.a.w.s) like khadijah (r.a) so much and always mentioned her, isnt that clearly said in the hadith??

'I dont know who is better and i dont care.

All i know is she was given the title mother of believers...

why do u care about who is better just look at yourself, jumping to others and abusing companions I MEAN LOOK AT YOUR LEVEL !!!'

why are you BLIND?

Answer 10

this is one statute book (hadith books) of sunnis which they  accept or reject any part of the book any time,whenever they want to according to the situation,they have an escape route called DAEEF HADITH,and some times daeef becomes sahi ,depending on the situation

but they uphold it dearly,,and disregard Quran sometimes over these books..

isnt it hypocrisy !!

Bukhari Volume 1, Book 4, Number 196:

Narrated 'Abdullah bin Zaid:

Once Allah's Apostle came to us and we brought out water for him in a brass pot. He performed ablution thus: He washed his face thrice, and his forearms to the elbows twice, then passed his wet hands lightly over the head from front to rear and brought them to front again and washed his feet (up to the ankles).

(2-a) DO NOT CROSS YOUR LEG;

Gaber Ibn Abdullah said, " The messenger of God prohibited a man from crossing one leg over the other while lying down on his back " Moslem

(2) CROSS YOUR LEG;

Ebada Ibn Tameem said , his father said that he saw the messenger of God lying down on his back in the mosque while crossing his legs." Moslem

(3) DO NOT DRINK STANDING UP;

Abu Hurayra said, the messenger of God said, "Do not drink while standing up, if someone forgot and did it, he should vomit what he drank."

Sahih Moslem

(4) DRINK STANDING UP;

Ibn Abbas said, "The messenger of God drank from the water of Zamzam while standing up...." Sahih Moslem.

(5) URINATE IN A STANDING POSITION:

"The Prophet urinated in a standing position" Bukhary

(6) DO NOT URINATE IN A STANDING POSITION;

"The Prophet never urinated in a standing position." Hanbel.

(7) END OF THE WORLD IN 100 YEARS;

In Bukhary, vol.1

" There will not be on the surface of Earth after one hundred years, one newborn (or created) human being."

Now after about 1400 years this hadith did not happen. The Prophet Muhammed could not say such a lie, but people who believe in falsehood cannot help but believe in it and put it in a book and call it AUTHENTIC (Sahih).

The corruption of Bukhary is obvious in this hadith. This hadith states that there will be no more NEW human beings 100 years after Muhammed. Despite the fact that this hadith was collected by Bukhary more than 200 hundred years after the death of the Prophet, and is obviously a LIE and a FABRICATION, and the prophet Muhammed could not have said it, Bukhary still included this lie in his SAHIH (Authentic hadiths). Bukhary did not care about what the hadiths say or teach but cared to find good Isnad (Chain of narrators). He failed in his Isnad and in his Sahih, and in his Islam. Bukhary corrupted his own book and Islam by many of these FALSE hadiths that, many deceived Muslims cherish and in doing so commit idol-worship. The Prophet Muhammed will complain to God on the Day of Judgment from him and from all the puppets who followed his footsteps.  See 25:30

Answer 11

There's nothing wrong with the Gheera of 'Aa'ishah radhiallaahu anhaa. If you want to pick Ahaadeeth then why do you not pick the Hadeeth about 'Aa'ishah radhiallaahu anhaa being the beloved of the Prophet salallaahu aalihi wa salam?

And this is reported in Saheeh Bukhaaree and Saheeh Muslim:

أي الناس أحب إليك‏؟‏ قال‏:‏ ‏‏عائشة‏‏‏‏ قال‏:‏ فمن الرجال‏؟‏ قال‏:‏ ‏‏أبوها

It was asked: "Who of the people is the most beloved to you?" He (salalllaahu alaihi wa salam) said: "'Aa'ishah" it was said: "And from the men?" He said "Her father" (Abu Bakr).

This is the thing about the Rawaafidh, they're never straight up... always trying to run corners and show only one part of a Hadeeth or ignore the other Ahaadeeth.

The Raafidhee Da'wah has failed.  

Answer 12

its disgusting that he had more then one wife , i wonder does she get an extra husband?

Answer 13

From a neutral side, you have brought a good point here

Only Rujkat is the one who answered this question logically and without offending anyone...

Without a doubt I agree that Hazrat Khadija (ra) is the best of the Prophet's wives. May Allah be pleased with her

@Fear none but Him

How can bringing authentic Sunni Hadeeths be creating Fitnah? Dont you think these are authentic?

honestly I was expecting logical answers from sunnis when I came to the question...

Answer 14

Khadija was very important to our beloved prophet (PBUH). She was with the prophet (PBUH) when he got his first revelations, she was the first to believe him unconditionally, so she was the first female Muslim, he stayed loyal to her all the 27 years that they were married and never took another wife besides her during her lifetime. So yes, we can conclude that she was very important.

Does this imply though she has a higher status than Ayesha? I'm not sure if you can draw that conclussion persé. Ayesha played a very important role too, as narrator of hadeeth and also to explain a lot of hadeeth; she was a source of wisdom, consulted a lot about hadeeth, especially after the demise of our beloved prophet (PBUH).

So both this magnificent women played their own very important role in the prophets (PBUH) life.

The prophet loved Khadijah dearly (only Allah knows if he loved her more than he did Ayesha) so of course he spoke lovingly about her to Ayesha and the other wives. As Ayesha was a mere human being, of course she felt jealousy. I think every woman would, this has nothing to do with superiority of one over the other!