Harassed by her parents and we are having a baby...?

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Harassed by her parents.....?

Here is the whats going on. me and my g/f are having a baby. Now they don't like me at all. I received an email that threatened me saying that if we are together then they are doing anything in their power to split us up and get me arrested. Now her dad is a police officer. I have not done anything wrong and we are very happy and just want our relationships to be happy. Now also they have threatened to take our baby away. We are both of age. No criminal records. She currently lives with them and is wanting to move out because of these threats. but cant because they scare her with all these things. is there anything i can do to protect my new family and get them to stop!!!! please i just want to have a happy family and since they aren't willing to work things out with us i just need to know what i can do to protect us. thank you so much for your time

they have also gotten her password to myspace and looked over all her mail. Blocked all my numbers so i can talk to her. He has looked up my background check for his personal amusement. and monitors all of our conversations on Aol instant messanger. Now isnt this an invasion of privacy? things just keep getting worse and was just informed that one more attempt was gonna happen to try and establish some peace and if they still dont except then she will be moving in. i really need to find out what im gonna do if it gets to that point. please help.......

Answer 1

1. Call the father's police superiors and give them a copy of this email threatening you - it's called abuse of power and it's an actionable offence.

2. Get a lawyer to advise you.

3. Move her out right away.  If necessary, get a restraining order against the parents ( you'll probably have to).

What they are doing is completely illegal.

They cannot take your baby away from you, so don't worry about that.

Oh - keep your house/apartment locked and lock you car at all times.  The father might stoop to planting evidence ( drugs) in your residence or car.

Answer 2

CONGRATS on the baby =) but omg if her father is a cop then you should print out all the threatening messages and go to court right away (he could get in deep $hit for threatening you!) move out with her, and put a restraining order on both of her parents! and let me not forget to mention it is an invasion of privacy.  and they cant take the baby away unless you are being a bad parent! prove them wrong..

good luck =) do whats best for you and your girl and the baby of course! need any advise feel free to pm me.

Answer 3

Please don't take this the wrong way, but how come you two don't live together if you're of age? It's his computer and his property that she uses, so he has every right. As far as him getting arrested he really can't, especially if you have no previous record. All he can do is tell his buddies to give you a hard time, then you can file harassment. All I can say is that if you tried to work things out with her family and to success, then that's pretty much all you can do. If your girlfriend really loves you, then she will be with you and tell her parents, until they can act like adults, they will not be apart of yours and your baby's life. Good Luck with this! Oh and get ready for the in laws problem. most everybody has them.

Answer 4

elope to a different state or country. though her dad is a police officer, his control of the system is limited to his district. Police officers can be corrupt to. and it sounds like he's using his position to persue his agenda. He's a very controlling dad, and he'll always be that way.

Good Luck. and Congrats.