Has a boyfriend ever cheated on you?

Question

And i mean like brutally cheated on you. like you should've known the whole time but you were so oblivious because you loved him? Has your ex boyfriend ever cheated on you with someone else you care about like your best friend?

I was dating this guy and he cheated on me with my best friend behind my back and i didn't know. and the worst thing was i had to hear it from my best friends boyfriend. yea i know. lol. *sounds lifetimey but its true*

Answer 1

yes, actually three of them!

the one said she was just a friend and that he NEVER could be seen dating her. they went out to lunch one day and i loaned him money even. then i had a Christmas party, a few days later, to go to and he went with me, it was two hours away and he drove with my family and i. we got to the party and he sat me down and basically dumped me with all of these dumb excuses, then said it was more of a break than a break-up. i stupidly believed him. well Christmas break came so i didn't see him at school, i went on his myspace profile and there was this letter thing that said that he had the best night of his life.....with this other girl. i felt so stupid for believing that he still loved me and that  we were going to get back together after finals were over because he needed to spend more time concentrating on them and felt like he was leaving me out.

the second one was even worse! i took the guy to my homecoming dance and he cheated on me at the dance with this other girl,he took her home that night. then told me some bs thing about her needing help home and that her date couldn't take her. i stupidly again believed another jerk and fell for it!!!!! then he continued to date me and take her out. now he wasn't good looking or anything like that, so i don't know how he got two girls or why i wasted my time with him in the first place. this girl was a friend of mine, she sat at my table at lunch and everything. when i would question him about it he would say she was making it all up because she was jealous and wanted him. then a third girl was thrown in the mix and i got out while i still had some dignity.

the third one is just stupid and i should have known better.

Answer 2

Yes, in a very brutal way.  In fact, he had been for years with several different women.  I finally found out because the last person he cheated with got pregnant.  Hey, I should sell my story to Lifetime.

Answer 3

never had a bf cheated on me before

Answer 4

yes, I have been cheated on by 2 boyfriends and they tried to win me back. One went to Atlanta and when I called him, I heard a chick in the background talking, he swore that she was a friend and I just hung up on him. The second one I caught at a gas station with some girl that he claimed was his cousin! I told him that he needs to be on Jerry the way he was holding her waist and flirting. Either way, They both took a hike and an ice cube has a better chance in hot boiling water than they do with me.

Answer 5

yes he did but i found out that he did not call on thanksgiveing christmas or new years then he told me to meet him at the mall his dad call me and told me that my son  is nomoren then no man then valintine  day he broke up with me 13 of feb on so yeah  

Answer 6

no i haven't ever been cheated on, but oh i'm sorry that sounds brutal haha

Answer 7

the same exact thing happened to me. & the worst part was that me & my ex dated for over 2 years. sure it hurt me a lot, but you got a whole life ahead of you. obviously your 'best friend' isn't a true friend. a true friend helps you in need, not destroys you. take little steps to try to get over it. you'll find someone so much better.

Answer 8

No

but a girlfriend has cheated on me the same way it happened to you

Answer 9

i have no proof of cheating BUT like me and my 1st love were together and then this girl was on his NUTS like a mutha.. n she was friends n slowly she would flirt all the time and so she became enemy #1 u know and he knew i hated her sooo much.. and then me and him broke up and guess who he starts going out with.. GRR HER!! omgg so i thought that iit was soo considential so i thought that he might of cheated.. but never for sure.. he says no bt i dont believe him.. !!

n then another bf.. he cheated on me but idk with who.. i never knew.. till like months later outta curiosity i asked.. aye have u ever cheated? ( hoping to hear no since i had no doubts) and he says , yea.. im like wtf!!!

n then by this time i was so fed up wit guys.. i started dating like a man so i wouldnt get played like a bitc*.. i lead guys on. broke their hearts. i was f*cked up.. lol bt sht they made me that way!! hehe

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