Has any Male experience this and how do i over come it?

Question

well i am 17 years old i've had s*x a couple times about a year and a half ago. the first couple of times it ran smooth but it got a little rocky after a while. i am uncircumsized and my frendulum *i think thats what its called* ripped a couple times. it ripped while i was having s*x, at first my partner and i thought that i "popped her cherry" but after taking a shoer i realized the blood came from me. i waited a few weeks and then it healed. couple days later i was dancing at a party and it ripped again. i told my dad and he said have s*x a few times and then it will rip completely and i will be good. this discouraged me. i went to the docter to get circumsized * that didnt work out*. now i am 17 and havent have s*x for a while with my frendulum still intact looking like it is stil able to rip.. i found this girl that wants to have s*x, but im scared it might ripp again the pain was horrible. should i just have s*x with her and allow it to rip?

p.s

my first times werent with condoms. was the lack of lubrication the cause? now i am more older and educated and will wear a condom.. will the condoms lubrication be good enough?

Answer 1

The lube from the condom may help reduce the friction but if you're worrying about it, it's going to make it harder to preform. Also you don't want to rip inside her and bleed in her for health reason. I was uncircumcised until i was 17. Try to have your dad take you down to the hospital (if you can) and get circumcised. You'll be out of service for a month or so but it'ss worth it for the peace of mind.

Answer 2

Wilkie T has a reading problem:he suggests you to get circumcised.

You are already cut.

I think that the frenulum can rip again,but lubricated condoms make it slide easier with less friction.

Chances are big that it will not rip again.

Space.

And if it happens,let your Dr snip it.Then the problem will be solved totally.

A question though:do you have problems when you m********e with the frenulum?Does ift feel real tight?Or is nothing the matter?

Then I see no problem at all.Space