Has any spouse of a Narcissist ever felt that their spouse was flirting with other women in front of them?

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My narcissist ex presented himself as someone that had really high morals and telling me one day that he told an attractive co-worker that he would never go to lunch with her because he would never want me to wonder.   Let me tell you!  These guys are snakes!! They flirt all the time with everyone.. men too!  They
are masters at flirting with old women...  their completely convincing because they don't distinguish that kind of attention and the attention that you would give your daughter or son or wife.. everything is forced and something they learned watching someone else.  They also perceive what they want to see, regardless of what it actually is.. Their imagination gets really distorted.   You know, the best suggestion to anyone dealing with this question is.. expect the absolute worse of your narcissist spouse.. and then multiply that by one-thousand.. but you'll never catch them red-handed..