Has anyone been unreasonably rude to u in your life? plz jugde this situation.

Question

god this is killing me! it happened to me a lot of times.

please help me judge this situation.

today i went to a hotel wid my family.

now me n my family dont like pepper in our food as its spicy.

in the hotel there were 2 chef at the buffet, i asked to make a particular dish to that chef n he was puttin pepper n i politely asked him not to. i just said " no thats ok no pepper plz." thats it. he made a weird angry face. i dont know y. then next to him there was another chef preparing another dish, n i asked him to make that dish n i see that he's done preparing it, he put it in plate then he had to go somewhere he asked this weird waiter ( who made weird face) to give it to me, then what i c is, he is looking at me n put loads of pepper on it. which u do not put on that dish at all i mean its not required. then i cud have cancelled it but it wud have been like creating a scene n everyone will think "big deal so a little pepper's on it" so i just took it n went to my table.

now y wud anyone do that. n wat shud i have done.

i mean i know lot of people reading this will think wat a weird person y so bothered about some person. but the thing is i really wanna know y it happend. at this moment i feel like dieing. mayb gods asking me to die. y wud somebody do that. n he is afterall a chef how dare he do something like in front me. if i go tell my family this they'll say u r sick in mind. dont bother.

but its still bothering me. that chef looked so cruel n cunning. i wish he dies a horrible death. iam sorry but thats the way i feel.

if u want plz share ur experiences too where somebody was unreasonably rude to u n u wish u killed him/her.

plz help me.

thank u.

Answer 1

It was rude and unprofessional of him. What if you or anyone in your family had been allergic to the pepper. I would report him to the hotel. I can understand you have strong feelings but let it go, there are a lot of bigger fish to fry these days than a dumb chef.

Get over it and make sure you get what you pay for next time.  

Answer 2

One thing I learned is never fight the chef. Just accept what he or she gives you or else you will find spit, boogers, pee,ect in your food.

Answer 3

The name of the game is CUSTOMER SERVICE. You are the customer, you did not receive the service requested. The manager should have been made aware his employees were incapable of getting your order correct. Customer service has gotten so bad because people are afraid to stand up for themselves in fear of retaliation.  

Answer 4

NEVER go to Italy, I've never seen chefs that can be more rude than the Italians.  For God's sake, I understand the pride they put in the preparation of a dish, but I have the absolute right to eat it MY WAY!, not theirs.  

It was YOUR food, and you have the right to have it YOUR way. They were the wrong ones, no matter what their excuse is.  Sweetheart, learn to stand for your rights, next time don't ask, YELL for a manager.  You are paying for a food that must be your way, not anyone else.

Answer 5

a toddler (white) was in a stroller and her shoe was untied and her mom was pregnant, and she would've had a hard time so I bent down and tied her shoe

Well, her husband comes over and wipes off her shoe as I turn around, I didn;t see it, but my mom told me so!