Has anyone ever given thier baby up for adoption?

Question

I am currently a mother of three.I am having another baby soon. I am getting my tubes tied right after.This pregnancy was not planned but I guess when you stop taking birth control you know what you are headed for.My boyfriend is against abortion so we decided in the beginning that adoption would be best. My kids kinda have a idea that I am pregnant but I haven't gained much weight so they don't really pay much attention to my small bump.well my due date is around the corner and I haven't talked to a single agency.MY bf's family won't leave me alone and they all want it. I want to just curse them out because I am really feeling violated by their way of so called helping.I am not 100% sure I even want to let my baby go anymore now that I have gotten to know her inside me.I thought it would be easy in the beginning but my mind has changed alittle

Answer 1

I  was given up for adoption when I was an infant. It was the most loving and unselfish thing my mother could have ever done for me. I was given such a gift and my life was forever changed. I was able to get a college education and be very successful. My family who adopted me were able to provide me with everything my mother wasn't able to because she was young. The most important thing in adoption is finding a couple who has a strong family, financially secure to offer your child and education and everything else they will ever need, and a house that has love beyond words to give!!!


I always knew I was adopted and every day I am so thankful and feel so blessed for the life she allowed me to have. I can only say that it is a hard thing to do, but I am proof that pure love of a birthmother can open doors for the future for their child.


My husband and I are now in the process of wanting to adopt. We have an amazing life and I want to give back, what was given to me. If I can help you in any way please let me know. I wish you the very best and if you ever want to talk you can contact me [e-mail]

Sincerely,

Kristin