I am in a relationship with a man of a year now and I found out a couple months ago I am pregnant. We are not married, nor living together, and right now he does not make enough to support us. I would not be working. I do not want to have a baby when I am not married, I also want to stay home with m baby. He has not done anything to show me that he is serious about stepping up, even though he told me if this ever happened, he would. So now I am considering adoption. I would like to know from some who has done it before. How did you recover from it? Did you hold the baby after you delivered it or not to avoid bonding with it? How long did it take you to recover from it?
thanks
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