Has anyone ever married someone that was really huge when you married them and then they lost about 150 lbs.?

Question

How did you feel about it?

Did you like them the way they were or were you more content to see them lose the weight?

How long have you two been married?

Answer 1

Yes , when I met my husband I was at my higest weight we have been together for 6 1/2 years. And last year I had Gastric Bypass and I have lost 160 lbs. Some of my husband friends asked him how he feel about me know that I have lost so much weight. And he tells them that he loves me now just as he did before that surgery.Along with the weight loss , some health problems went away  like my type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure. I want to be with my husband in the future not in the ground or hospital  I'm still the same person, personality, ...my love for him The only thing is that I'm 160 lbs lighter and there is less of me he has to hold. But the love we carry for each other is 100% and strong that has and will never change. Thanks for asking

Answer 2

ITS USUALLY THE OTHER WAY AROUND. AS SOON AS SHE SAYS "I DO" SHE PACKS ON 150LB.

Answer 3

your vows said nothing about weight, did they????

Answer 4

Why does it matter, you married them or you should have married them for them. If they want to lose weight, great but if they gain weight fine too. They are still the same person not unless you try to change them or try to make the weight gain or loss more then what it is. Love someone for who they are not what they are. That is a problem now days, no one wants to be happy for any one else and no one wants to respect the vows they took when they got married. What ever your spouse chooses to do, you need to support them and love them, like they do you. You need for them to be happy, not to make yourself happy. You should feel how ever they feel, it is not always about you. Even know sometimes we all do that.