Has anyone felt this way about their friend before?

Question

It has been about six years since I became best friends with this gal, and we have been through a lot of things that had shaped us into a pair of true friends today.

Although, lately, mainly starting in mid July of this summer, she has always gotten on my bad side lately. What I mean is that almost anything she says or does, annoys me to beyond death.

(i.e. Like things she would say, would sound incredibly stupid; Decisions she would make, I would disagree with but then feel extremely aggravated about it, even though it would have nothing to do with me).

I don't understand why I feel this way all of a sudden. I know she hasn't changed much, at least I don't believe so. And of course I don't want to come across seeming like I think I am smarter than her (in fact she is a very brilliant person).

So do you think it is perhaps stress? (Heh, if it is, then I wouldn't know what is causing my stress)

Or maybe chemical imbalances (aka, out of control hormones).

I just want to stop becoming so annoyed and even angry with her, and I don't want this to build up and ruin our friendship over my almost uncontrollable emotions. And of course, I don't want her to change into something that isn't her just to make me happy or stuff like that.

Answer 1

maybe just chemical imbalances....does she have a boy friend if she does it may be jeoulesy

Answer 2

Chances are, you're spending too much time together. Im 18, and when I was around 14ish I used to have my one best friend who I hung out with CONSTANTLY and eventually, you just become aggravated at the most random stuff that they say. I know exactly what you mean!

Spend less time together, she might be feeling the same was as you are, and she's too scared to hurt your feelings as well.

Im not saying stop hanging out all together, just less. thats all.

hope I helped.