Has anyone gotten a sign from a deceased parent?

Question

My mom died a few months ago and I've had a couple of really comforting dreams of her. Sometimes I dream that she tells me she's sorry for leaving me but she was really sick, ( lung cancer, emphysema) and she tells me she misses me too and she's sorry that she's not here for me when I worry about my kids, sometimes I have bear hug dreams. I don't know if these dreams are really from her or am I just making myself dream of her. I do think of her every night before I go to sleep. Recently on her birthday, I took a dozen roses to her grave and the next day I smelled roses all day. Has anyone had similar experiences?

Answer 1

whel in sciantifc terms its not happening but in religion you dont need sense anywaythe holy kuran says that when a loved one is lost they can come to you in forms of vissions and dreams smell sand fealings but then again the kuran says that allah decides your dreams so that might be it jewws say idont know what they say and christians dont say anything

but there is allways the fact that because you miss her in your sleep your mind is totaly emty and calm so your mind will focus on the most mojor thing (your mom dieing) so you will have dreams of that its like when you watch a scary movei you might dreaM THE MOVÄ°E the rose smell can be 3 things 1-there where alot of roses that day

2-some sorth of spirit thing (holy godlike etc.)

3-because you where think ing abaut the rose you smellt it even do it wasnt there

Hope it help

Sorry for te passsing of your mother

Answer 2

my mom died many years ago but while my sister and I were sitting in her living room talking about what to do with all her things a foot massage item that I had given her for Christmas that year turned on.  I grabbed it off the floor and turned it off.  It was a little scotty dog from Avon.  We continued to talk and the thing turned on again.  It was in the off position but continued to work.  We decided that it was a sign from mom that she was there with us and would always be in some way.  Over the years we have talked about it on occasion and had a nice memory.  The point is, if you believe that she is there with you then she is.  No matter what anybody else has to say about it.   Believe in those dreams because that is what makes the life you have without her comfortable.

Answer 3

The night my Grandma's husband died - before I knew he was dead - I dreamed that he told me to make sure to take care of grandma.

My husband was having an affair. His mother came to him in a dream and told him to quit or he was going to lose me. Long story short - he did, we're not better yet, but we're getting there.

So I definately believe the dead can contact the living - I've seen proof.

Answer 4

i have just recently been dreaming of my grandfather. really weird. he's dead but the dreams seem so real. as if he wakes me up and we are talking through the night. but when i wake up it's morning time. Do you think the dead reach out to us?

Answer 5

My mom also died of lung cancer.  I have had similar things that have made me feel like my mom was giving me a sign.  For instance...My mom loved roses so I planted a rose bush at my house just after she died (I live in a different state than my mom did).  Every year it gets its first blooms  the week of her birthday. I have heard of other people having similar experiences as well.  I don't know if it really is our moms giving us a sign or not but I feel like if it gives us comfort it is ok to believe that they are.  I think that there are many things we just can't or don't have the capacity to understand so I tend to believe it is a sign.  My thoughts are with you.  Just remember to be patient with yourself and it does get easier to deal with the loss with time.

Answer 6

im sorry about your loss. im not sure what to think. what im thinking that yes thats her way of telling you shes ok. have you heard the story of the mom who lost a child and prayed for a sign that her daughter was ok she prayed for a rainbow to say shes alright and then a rainbow appeared.  

Answer 7

I have my aunt's clock on my mantle.  It runs good but has not chimed for years ( even before she passed).  On special occasions it will chime.  I will also smell her perfume when this happens (Estee Lauder).  I find it very comforting.  There is not a doubt in my mind this is my aunt.  She passed of Lough Gerick's disease.  We would talk for hours because we knew eventually she wouldn't be able to use her voice.  She always told me that she would always be there and if there was a way for her to let me know she was ok, there and thinking of us, she would find it.  Well, I think the morning my daughter got married, my son's birthday or a time when my husband left me.  It can't be just coincidence when it only happens on these special occasions or occasions of great sadness.  So next time you sense your mother embrace every sign.