Has anyone had the love of their life cheat on them?

Question

and how did it end out for you? really want to hear other peoples stories who have been in this situation and how it worked out for them... at the moment i really cant see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Answer 1

yeah, still with him but not for much longer, the trust has gone and he is always distant now. i and you deserve better then that. but it is so hard and awful, especially when you love them so much.

i'm not sure you will see a light at the end of the tunnel, its hard to trust someone again when they have betrayed you so badly, and they know all along that doing that is bad and they still do it.

not found anyone better yet, but that is because i am still with him for a bit, and unlike him, i don't cheat.

edit:

thank you =] i'm glad you got rid of him, i really hope i get rid of him soon, but i always miss him so much when he isn't there, even though right now he is out with his other girl =[

Answer 2

I had someone cheat on me at least twice, that i know of, but it was a dreadful relationship all round, so i wouldnt say he was the love of my life, although i thought he was at the time...

but, i just wanted to say i know how you feel, that raw feeling when you find out (i couldnt breathe i was so angry and upset!!) and then the feeling when you dont know if you are doing the right thing...  

Dont get back with him, the trust will NEVER be there again and the thought of it will ruin your relationship and make everyday a challenge.

And he needs to learn his lesson, for himself.

you are doing the right thing by leaving him, you deserve someone who will appreciate you and treat you right... and you will meet that person. They're not all like that.

I met someone else and he is fantastic, i love him to pieces and he's the first boyfriend i've ever trusted 100% and its a relief to feel that way!

Have fun with your friends and keep busy, you will get over it and meet someone right, who will appreciate and love you.

EDIT = i stayed with my ex after the fist cheat, and it was very difficult and unpleasent, then he cheated on me again about 2 years later, i left him then... he was a master liar and i never got the whole truth from him.

EDIT2= i think sometimes the reason people stay is because people get used to being in the relationship, in my case it was all i knew cos i was with him for so long.

just be brave and stick with your decision, you'll get results in the end.

Answer 3

I ended up getting divorced.

Answer 4

whilst this hasn't happend 2 me..i know 4 certain that i would have 2 break up with my partner..cos once the trust is gone u never get it back

Answer 5

I found out my ex bf was cheating on me on our 2 year anniversary. I was devestated!!! It had been going on for months aswell, i felt like a stupid twit :( I loved him so much....and to think i was willing to take him back!! I was heartbroken for a while but knew there was someone out there for me that was going to treat me better.

Ive now been with my current bf for a year n 8 months and its going great.

Once a cheater.....always a cheater! Get rid!! You can and will do better, you might not see that now but you will!! :D x*x

Answer 6

yep and i dumped him ofcourse

Answer 7

i was in love with this girl for a few years we were going out and i had s*x with her and told her i loved her and a week later i found out she was cheating on me and she broke up with me then in this place that only i know about that i  showed her i found her with another man ... so we are still broken up but were friends just not great ones  

Answer 8

I havent but I know plenty people who have cheated and were cheated on.

I feel so bad for you and I think the things that would matter to me  where

Who she/he was?

How long it went on for?

Were we having problems?

Was it just once?

If ths person really is "the love of your life" you will get through it, but please take care of yourself and make how you are feeling the no.1 priority and dont let it demolish you! I mean look what it nearly did to Cheyl Cole! I think if you stay with this person and you look hard at what you have, you will know fairly quickly if its going to work or not!

The very, very best of luck!!!

Answer 9

Yes, but I loved her and still do. Do you love them enough to forgive? If you do can you also try to forget? if yes talk truthfully to them and move on.... We have just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary. Good luck. X