I just asked a similar question a few minutes ago. I got a lot of good common sense answers from you guys on it. Unfortunately, sometimes common sense is not good enough in this world. My lawyer here in Ontario Canada, told me that he couldn't protect me from my girlfriend's son, as far as having to pay child support goes. Even if the kid's real father already pays child support, I could still be nailed. Here in Canada, if you have to pay child support, it can extend until the kid is done College and University, or until the kid turns 25 ( I think). Don't get me wrong, I would love to help this boy, but he just wont listen to a thing he is told. He is 14 years old, and I know this is typical behavour of teenagers...but not to this degree. He has been diagnosed with O.D.D. All he does is sit around and play extremely violent video games all day and night. This boy could wind up destroying the relationship with my girlfriend , who is pregnant with my child. I could just tell her to forget about moving in with me and just pay her child support based on my income. I don't really want to do that , becuase I know it will limit my role as a father. I was wondering if maybe I got her to pay me room and board for her son, if that would legally rule out the courts ruling that he was dependant upon me. Just looking for ideas here. This kid is also a chip off the old block...just like his old man! I can sense the kid's resentment of me quite a bit. I am almost sure that this kid and his father would try to cook up some way to nail me if they could.
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