Has anyone turned on their partner while pregnant and hormonal?

Question

I love my man to death but the last couple of weeks i have completely turned on him.Everything he does annoys me.I am yelling at him all the time and the other night i even told him i hated him which i didn't even mean.

Answer 1

Yes this happens to a lot of women.  It happened to me with my last child and my grandmother pushed away the love of her life with her oldest child.  As soon as you have baby and your hormones go back to normal you will be back to normal.  Tell him its your hormones and for him to ignore you during these times because you are not in your normal state of mind.  It is only temporary...try harder and being nice even when you don't feel like it.  You will want him around once the baby comes...

Answer 2

I was convinced my husband and I would be divorced by my due date. but you know what, we got through it, I apologized for being a nut case and I am my normal happy self now. I think the most important thing I did during my hormone crazed pregnancy was when I felt myself getting psycho, I walked away, went for a walk, had a snack, put my headphones on or got in the tub. anything to difuse my mood. You're going to get through this, both of you and it WILL get better. once you see the man you love holding his baby you're going to melt. and then honestly, when you bring home baby, you will both be so lost in parenting world, you won't notice if your relationship is crappy anyway!

Answer 3

Your body is going though a lot of changes.. I'm sure he understands..  

Answer 4

I sure have, with all 4 of my pregnancies. (This is my 4th and last.)

Fortunately, he and I have really been getting along, lately, and it's been great! The hormones were worse for me, in the beginning, but, having gone through it, three times, already, I was able to control myself a little better... Good luck!

Answer 5

omg i have been horrible so far. i feel so bad when i yell at him. most of the time it's for no reason or he did something small that annoyed the c**p out of me. i usually end up breaking down and bawling and apologize for being so mean. our hormones are doing some crazy things and sometimes i don't feel in control!! ha! hopefully your man understands that it's just the changes your body is going through. maybe try to do something special for him to let him know you do love him!!!

Answer 6

yes i was like that hopefully your man is supportive mine left me alone sick as can be and we also had a 1 year old. I went through a really bad depression to the point of being suicidal. Im really not sure why i took him back

Answer 7

Sounds familiar to me, i always like to pick a fight with him for no reason and he anoys me and just ahhh i cant stand him for no reason its sad, but its just hormones itll go away, i had it in first trimester it went away now its back in the last one lol. good luck

Answer 8

I'm 37 weeks and seem to continually be snapping at my hunny. Good thing he realizes it's mostly hormones and plays it off. I make sure to apologize when I am out of line.

Answer 9

Oh yes, I do that pretty regularly now, and before I was pregnant, I was the least bitchiest woman you'd ever meet. Now, sometimes, I can't even kiss him, cuz it makes me feel nauseous. And sometimes, the little things he does, like making noises with his mouth or something will make me want to chop his head off. lol. it's totally normal, just tell him that you're going through alot of hormonal changes, and to bear with you. It'll get better. : )

Answer 10

Yeah, sadly I do that as well. I've not had a full nights sleep since I was around 10 weeks because I constantly have to go to the bathroom. Then, it takes me forever to fall back asleep. Needless to say I value what little sleep I do get. So the past few nights my hubby has been in an extremely cuddly mood and it drives me crazy! Normally I would love for him to hold me at night but now I find myself pushing him away and not wanting to be touched. I know it has to hurt his feelings. Hopefully he understands its not me, just the hormones!  

Answer 11

I know how you feel, to a certain extent. I've recently been very cold hearted towards my boyfriend without even meaning too. It makes me feel awful, and then I'll start to cry about it, but I think he knows that deep down it's only the hormones and that I love him very much. All you have to do is reasure him that you love him and that it's just the change in hormones causing you to act the way you are and that it's not intentional.

Good Luck

Answer 12

I'm like that with my husband.  I can't control it, I don't know what's happening to me!  But thankfully, he's been a pretty understanding daddy to be and usually just laughs at me (which can make me more mad) and then rubs my feet or my legs (which makes me forget all about being mad).  Only 4 more weeks to go!