Has bipolar taken control of her heart too?

Question

my gf told me yesterday she had had thoughts in the past of leaving me but her thoughts have changed now she also told me that she didnt know if she loved me or not but before her last episode was in love with me i support her even through the bad times and i love her with all my heart and am so afraid that maybe the love has been lost that she had for me yet today she said she wanted to try and make things work plz help can bipolar totaly change her to the point the love she had for me is lost forever or will she come around and thing get back to normal

Answer 1

If her mood is unstable, then her feeling about everything are unstable.  That includes how she feels about you.  If she is stable, she is herself and her feelings and thoughts are genuine.  There also is continuity from "normal" period to "normal" period in that the basic personality, character and everything that makes the person an individual are pretty much the same.  If she was thinking about leaving you when she was stable, then had an episode, but now is again stable and again questioning the relationship, that's probably her real self doing the questioning.  On the other hand, if her questioning comes when she is unstable or just starting to stabilize, then wait it out.  That's when the illness has a lot of influence.

Answer 2

some of the meds my daughter was on made her seem cold and uncaring they are so unpredictable

therefore i prefer natural treatment

look on curezone.com and alternativementalhealth.com

lack of sleep can also cause many things, also help her eat healthy

good luck,

Answer 3

With someone with bipolar you just have to give her extra time if it's something that you done wrong or she thinks you done wrong then wait it out because 80% will come back all you can do is try to stay in distant contact with her let her know that you do love her and care for her and if it is just the bipolar she will come back to you.