Has hate and anger and negativity ever spewed from your mouth before you even thought about what you said ?

Question

I said a horrible and vile thing to one of my friends under the guise of hatred and bigotry. I don't even know why I said it and I can't take it back and now it's out there as a testimony of my chraracter.I am so ashamed of myself.

Answer 1

I said something horrible to my sister out of anger, that normally I would never say.  It was years ago, but when I think about it, I still feel really bad.  I wish I could take it back, and I really hope she has forgotten it.  It stinks when you know you should apologize, but you're afraid they have forgotten it, and that apologizing will only make them remember.

Answer 2

I've said some things that I regret for sure. Maybe not bigotry, but I've said some things that I regret. And yes,it's the worse feeling knowing that you can't take it back. But the best thing to do is to learn from it and perhaps even explore the reasons why this came out of your mouth so quickly.  

Answer 3

I do it all the time. Get used to it.

Answer 4

Yes, anger has come out of my mouth with me not even thinking about what I said. I know I was dumb for it but, hey!

Well they all kept asking me questions and they were just trying to be nice so, I was like "Do you have a problem with me not talking"?? I said it in a oh so mean way..I wish I could take it back and I highly regret it.......I to am ashamed of my self because they were just trying to be nice.

Answer 5

I have a few time,most of the time i feel bad..But a few times,the person had it coming to them.. (it takes allot for me to say something mean like that)

Answer 6

I usually hold on to my anger and hostility long enough to fester for a little while.  Then when I finally run out of patience, I say exactly what needs to be said, and if it's hurtful, it's because I meant it to be.

All you can do now is apologize and explain as best you can as you did here and hope that your friend understands and forgives you.  It may take some time.

Don't beat yourself up.  You're not a bad person.

Answer 7

Yep whenever I get really ticked or something I can jsut think of somethin for a split second and Id do it. i puncheda girl in the stomach before jsut thinking it and cursedat my friend. Just try to control ur anger

Answer 8

In that way i am not a good role model for my girls however i become aware then avoid doing it again

Answer 9

I did when I was a child, as I grew older and matured I learned to think before I spoke because I had learned that such things can't be taken back and can haunt you for years.  I think that's just part of growing up.