Has this ever happened with ur "friend"??

Question

well i had this friend, no not even a friend she was like my sister.im a sophomore and i had been best friends with this chick since we were in 1st grade.our families were cool n **** n we told eachother everything.freshman year she totally changed with me, she started being a ***** and kicking it with different people.so now we don't talk at all.we pass by eachother n dont even say hi. it kinda hurts cuz i use 2 b so close with her.but im glad cuz i dont need fake people in my life..i was just wondering, has this ever happened 2 u??

Answer 1

nope

Answer 2

sort of. i came to the USA in 6th grade, and am now gonna be a sophmore too. my first year here i made friends with this girl & we were like best friends and everything, but after a while i realised she drove me crazy. so through freshman year i started ditching her (trust me, its the last thing i wanted and im NOT that type, im rather dorky and introvert, but im trying to get the point accross to her how incredibly obnoxious she is). now she's still trying to be friends with me, texts me all the time asking if i want to hang out, but i keep turning her down. when i see her in the corridors i try to ignore her because i know if i talk to her, she'll start ranting and yelling abouther latest crush (she has a million crushes a week).

so yeah, i can sympathise. it's tough, but that's life. you just gotta realise it goes on and you gotta go with it.

good luck!!

<3

Answer 3

good news when i hear u dont need fake people

but in your issue there is a secret between yours

try to discover it

Answer 4

Not personally, but I know people who have been in your situation.  Not all friendships are meant to last.  

Answer 5

sadly, i know too much about your experience. me and kristina have known eachother since i was 3 all of my memories include her and joanne(her mother) they were like my unofficial adopted family. Joanne passed in 2001 and understandably Kristina went out of control. shje became a whole different person. she became conniving and deceitful and she began not respecting her body nor the people that care for her. we had a rocky friendship from 2005-2007 then i had to cut off ties after she slept with the love of my life! I still love her because she is my sister, but i cannot trust her and we can't be friends. it hurts but life goes on. i do have to call her every now and then because i care so much about her but i am not interested in her freindship anymore.... i am 20 now and she is 21

Answer 6

i dont want to read this

Answer 7

yeah, this has happened 2 me.  i was bfs w/ this girl since preschool and we always hung out and had all these inside jokes, but when we got 2 high school it was like i wasn't cool enough 4 her and we went our separate ways.  just find the true friends and stick w/ them.

Answer 8

yea, its happened to me before. but we havent known each other since first grade, more like freshmen year, im a senior now, but anyway, yea, as yourself, im glad that me and the girl drifted apart because i dont need a fake *** person in my life, especially the one who lies constantly. its sad tho, because the one person you thought was gonna be your bestfriend forever, isnt gonna be.

Answer 9

Yes, I was best friends with this girl all in elementary school. As soon as we went to junior high, the clicks starting happening and she became popular and I was the average girl who hung with everyone.

We are now 19 and in college and she is known for being the high school w***e and I'm the girl who was known and cute and sweet. I think I won, and it was really her loss in the friendship. We could have had some good years as friends but she threw it away to sleep with guys.

Tsk tsk.

Answer 10

hopefully i made friends with the right people& now we're going into highschool, but if i didn't you make new friends but keep the old ones.

live& learn, my dear.

Answer 11

Yes,I had a best friend like yours,we were best since I met her,we have been THE BEST for 12 long years.I could tell her everything, but she found herself a new crew.My problem is that I trust people to much.I know how you feel.If you want to talk about it send me e-mail.

Answer 12

yup, has happened and it hurt a lot. Your only consolation is that you're most likely to be the smarter one of you ;) and more mature as you recognized the whole situation and probably as well why it happened. (your friend wasn't as mature as you.)

Answer 13

I guess it sorta happened to me when a friend you were close to started hanging out with different people and them they left you

Answer 14

well, dis situation is lyk way common wd frens...

yes, even i hv suffered frm a similar kinda question.....

i hd a fren n we were like more dn sisters..

bt today, we dnt even luk upto each oder..

bt its ok...pple chng...n its better to accept d changs be4 dey hurt us...

so, dnt take tension...live tensionfree...

u'll gt better frens...

Answer 15

yout best friends in middle school become your worst enemys in high school  

Answer 16

People change. Yes, this has happened to me. I've found that everyone is severely imperfect, and if you want to have friends, you have to cover over their transgressions with forgiveness, but then some aren't even worth the effort!

Answer 17

I had the same situation as u do. I had this best friend in kindergarten and when we got into high school she totally changed and tried to drag me into drugs and drinking. I'm not like that so i just had to get over it and find new friends. I hope everything works out

Answer 18

  This happens all the time... I don't talk to anyone from before high school these days... and I rarely talk to anyone I met in high school/college for that matter. People always change. It's not necessarily a bad thing. We humans have fairly long life spans... and it would get really boring if everything were always the same. Sometimes change can hurt though... I hope you feel better =)

Answer 19

This happens alot. Things change in high school and people go different directions.  It is sad that you guys can't acknowledge that you used to be close though.  

Answer 20

ya, sometimes people just move on.

Answer 21

not really maybe she was thinking you have been friends for a long time and she wants to hang out with other people now.