and you found you now are married to a completely different person than you originally got engaged to and married? More importantly, do you feel that if it were not for your children, if you could have known that this different person would emerge--you would NEVER have married your spouse nor been attracted to marry your spouse? I married a woman who I adored, was kind, compassionate, fun enjoyed s*x etc...Now I am married to a woman who is unfaithful, wants to see other guys, is self absorbed and mean spirited (really, I am NOT exaggerating), vulger (swears like a sailor). Marriage therapy has been useless as she is unwilling to attempt most of the exercises at home. I just wonder how I got engaged and married to one woman and find myself married to someone I never would have dated (if she were then who she is now).
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