Hated first day of highschool?

Question

Ok i was nervous this morning but when i got there it was fine. so i'm walking to my class i go in and there is about 12 kids so its going fine but before the bell rings 45 more kids come in and i didn't know anyone in that class. So after that i thought its ok i'll have friends in other classes.but it got worse. My next class had two seniors 7 sophomores and 4 juniors in that class and they were all those wanna be gangsta kids. And then every class after those were the same. I want to change my schedule but i dont know how. or should i just stick with it and finish the year. o and by the way i'm a freshmen

Answer 1

Well I'm a senior now and to be honest I am basically one of the most known kid in the school. I hang with all kind of people, from good to bad. Don't run away from your fears or problems just try to avoid negative consultations. Be cool with them, by this I mean look for Q's to get a chance to talk to the main person that stands out the group. This well show the person you are cool and most likely won't bother you if your conversation or confrontation was great!

Answer 2

What you do is you become a well-known seniors best friend and then no one will mess with you.

Btw my first day was much worse. I had one class with a friend and that was about the highlight of my day. I had my period, with cramps, was sick and two guys asked me out... laughing (bad sign). Another guy in my pe class introduced himself and three minutes later was trying to kiss me and even tried to get his hands under my shirt... I was practically raped!

Ugh, but now im a junior and NOBODY messes with me XD.  

Answer 3

No, don't just put up with the classes you don't like.  Can you jot down precisely what changes you think would make you happy? Then at least go to the school office & ask it you can change.  They will surely know if you can change classes & how you would do it.  Also, try to make an appt with a school counselor.  

Don't just accept that the class you want is full & that they'll put you on a wait list.  It might seem babyish to you to have one of your parents call the school & request the change if you've been told no.  However, kids whose parents are persistent about calling the school & nagging the principal are often the ones who get what they want.  The squeeky wheel gets noticed.  For instance, if you want the college prep math class, the principal may think you're more likely to succeed in that class if your parents are supportive.  Also, they may be able to move mountains (pardon the cliches) if your parents are all upset that you've been placed in a class with the gangsta kids.  The school is more likely to help if they realize that your parents will raise a fuss, & they're more likely to realize that you don't belong with the gangsta kids if your parents are involved.  

So, don't worry about the other kids finding out that your parents called the school.  In this type of situation, that's probably not going to happen, & the other kids are too busy with their own lives anyway.  If anyone asks about it, just shrug.

If you're going to change classes, you MUST do it as quickly as possible so you won't be behind in the new section of the class.

I hope things work out for you.  

Answer 4

You dont make friends the first day of school so suck it up youll make friends eventually say in a a month or maybe a week.

Answer 5

although what youre saying about the people in your class is being prejudice. try getting to know them, and i guarantee youll make atleast 2 friends. ATLEAST. just because they dress a certain way doesnt mean that theyre mean people.

if you really cant stand your schedule, you should talk to your counselor.

Answer 6

that is how all classes are dont worry it will get better

Answer 7

wow...u must go to a BIG school!

im a freshman too, and honestly, i think u should stick it out. changing your schedule could be even worse. try to get to know some new people! make new friends, and you can still see your other friends at after school sports, in the hallways and maybe during studyhall or lunch! good luck!

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Answer 8

Stick with the classes,

Try talking to people you never know what they could be like!

If all else fails try to change it but try to make friends first!

Answer 9

it's high school. you're not supposed to like it.

dont worry, it will be over soon enough and it will get better - a lot better. keep your head up and be friendly, you'll make a lot of friends and will do well. just stay away from cigarettes, drugs and booze.

Answer 10

omg im starting highschool on the second and thanks a lot im nervous. i am going to be a freshmen too. and i think that u should tell ur teaachers about that or the prcipal. it was ur first day, give it a chance and let it all drop in. u will make some frineds just go up to them and say hi and introduce ur self. talk to them. hope i helped and best of luck.plz vote for me for best answer i really need the points. :P

Answer 11

Since you're a freshman it's going to be really hard to get your schedule changed I think.  Unless you're talking about gym class, 57 kids in 1 class is insane.  That is way too overcrowded.  You could go to your guidence counselor and ask about changing your schedule around, but do it quickly.  Don't wait.

Answer 12

do you have a guidance office?

At my school you go there to get your schedule changed.

If you can't figure out how to get your schedule changed just start talking to people make new friends!

Answer 13

try stick it out...who knows u might find some friends....but i f u really do hate it then say it sooner....they'll never change it if u wait too long.....

Answer 14

I had problems like this when I went to high school. I had to go to the guidance counselor to switch classes. But remember what if your friends arent in any of those either? Worth a shot though. Do it right away tomarrow before its too late

Answer 15

go to your guidance office and tell them that you do not like your classes, im pretty sure they are still very flexible at the beginning of the year

Answer 16

Try to meet new people and make new friends!

Answer 17

Well, I had a very simliar problem and I chose to get home schooled! One of the best decisions!!! Go to your councelor if you don't have my option and request a schedule change!!

best of luck and remember: don't fall into peer pressure!!!

set an example to the freaks that want to be "gangsta"

Answer 18

Stop worrying. If you show that your scared or nervous, theses kids will eat you alive.

Answer 19

Smack one of the wiggaz in his dome-piece and you'll get mad respek from the other bitchz. 4 real. just dont punk out.

Answer 20

Trust me, the next years don't get much better, not until senior year...but it's something that everyone just has to go through, so live it up, get involved in clubs and sports and enjoy it while you can. =]

Answer 21

what ever classes u hate the most go to ur councel thats in ur area/house and ask her if u can switch and tell her why u dont want to stay in that/those classes any more questions send me them

Answer 22

hahh. that sucks.

go to the office & ask for a schedule change or

just try to make new friends...

be cool. be outgoing. Yay!

Answer 23

If you want you can talk to the counselor about it. That's what they're there for! He/She will help you decide what to do.

Answer 24

Oh Dear, You will be just fine. Its only your first day. Im not a teen, Im too old to know anything but you will make friends! Try shapening up your gobble for launch and you will launch into a joyous ride of school!

Answer 25

Oh c**p!!! I'm a freshman!! its gonna suck for me too! well, if i were you i'd try to not give the kids in your class a reason to eat you alive. if it really sucks just go to the counseling office. But just deal with it, it might not be so bad.

Answer 26

meet new people

Answer 27

dont change it, meet new people, just be friendly and you will be fine i promise.

Answer 28

it all comes with time

Answer 29

I think you should try talking to the kids in your classes despite what you think. and some wanna be gangstas aren't all that bad(just weird to look at).

but you should ddefinitelyjoin some teams and clubs. my first year in high school i made tons of friends joining sports and only a few in classes.

good luck!