Haunted by a skeleton, what should I do?

Question

When I was 24 I made a silly mistake and had an affair with a married (but separated) woman. She was three years older than me. She was witty and pretty - I fell for her snares! Eventually I saw my mistake, broke up with her and advised her to patch things up with her husband. But she would not do it! I think she is not right in her head. She comes to my place anytime she wants, sometimes dressed up as a man. She spoils my books - one day she wrote on one "Remember me!" As if I can forget it! She lost a lot of weight, and it looks like I am haunted by a skeleton! She harasses me, and had temerity to announce that I was "mad, bad and dangerous to know"! I just want her to let me be, and go back to her husband William who is a great fellow and deserves better. What should I do?

Answer 1

tell her you would love to go out with her but you're into fat chicks.. if she's really crazy she'll gain a lot of weight.. then tell her she looks like a pig. She won't know what to think anymore.

and if william is such a great fellow and deserves better then why do you want her to go back to him. she sounds like a real nut job

Answer 2

Move out.

Answer 3

Don't let 'em leech ya, Georgie Boy

Answer 4

im scared for you

well if you have tried to talk to her and that didnt work i really think you should tell her you dont want to be with her and tell her your getting the police on her

i know it sux to make them involved but its kinda scary bu t make sure u have proof that she harrasses you cuz knowing ppl like that shell turn it around on you  

Answer 5

Dude that's messed up. Get a restraining order. And if what she's doing isn't enough for you to get one, make her do more, trick her into doing something worse and then get one.

Answer 6

whatever you do, don't go to greece!  the weather there is terrible & could have an adverse affect on your health!  (i would warn you away from sheep if i could but it's too late for that.)

Answer 7

Umm...well, maybe if you try hanging out with William, she'll get mad at you and leave you alone?

OR, you could just try ignoring her.  I know it might be hard, but you gotta try.  She probably feeds on your reactions to her harassings.  If you pretend she's not there, maybe she'll stop.

Good luck.. :)